Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) relates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) visited a woman from the tribe of Khath'am and asked: "How do you find yourself?" She said: "I think of myself only that I am about to die." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I wish that, before departing from this world, you would take care of an orphan or equip a warrior."
Imam Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains a narrator, Nufay' Abu Dawud al-A'ma, and he is a liar (kadhdhab).