Advising the dying to say La ilaha illallah, consoling the afflicted, strengthening graves, and forbidding sitting on them

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This excerpt is taken from the Arabic book Al-Awamer wal-Nawahi by Sheikh Hussain bin Mubarak Al-Mawsili, whose Urdu translation has been done by Muhammad Sarwar Gohar Sahib under the title Ahkamat o Mamnooat.

Encouraging a person near death to recite La ilaha illallah

① Sayyiduna Abu Saeed Khudri رضي الله عنه narrates, the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

لقنوا موتاكم لا إله إلا الله

“Encourage your people who are near death to say La ilaha illallah.”

Reference: Muslim, Book of Funerals 917. Ibn Majah, Book on Funerals 1444. Ibn Hibban 304.

② Sayyida Aisha رضي الله عنها narrates, the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

لقنوا هلكاكم لا إله إلا الله

“Encourage your dying ones to say La ilaha illallah.”

Reference: This narration is authentic, An-Nasa’i 5/4.

Consoling a person afflicted with calamity

① It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Mas’ud (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

من عزى مصابا فله مثل أجره

“Whoever consoles a person afflicted with a calamity will receive a reward like his.”

Reference: This narration is weak, Tirmidhi, Book of Funerals 1073. Ibn Majah, What is mentioned about funerals 1602, in its chain Ali bin Asim is weak, see Al-Arawa 765.

② It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Burzah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:

من عزى ثكلى كسي بردا فى الجنة

“Whoever consoles a woman whose child has gone missing will be clothed with a striped cloak in Paradise.”

Reference: Its chain is weak, Tirmidhi, Book of Funerals from the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 1076, Imam Tirmidhi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Its chain is not strong, this narration is rare, researcher Zubair Ali Zai states: In its narration is Munya bint Ubaid who is unknown.

Prohibition of Strengthening Graves

① It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم forbade making graves solid, sitting on them, and building structures on them.

Reference: Muslim, Kitab al-Jana’iz 970/94. Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Jana’iz 1052. Nasai, Kitab al-Jana’iz 72/4.

Prohibition of Sitting on Graves

① Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه reports that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

لأن يجلس أحدكم على جمرة فتحرق ثيابه فتخلص إلى جلده خير له من أن يجلس على قبر

“If any one of you sits on a burning coal that burns his clothes and reaches his skin, it is better for him than sitting on any grave.”

Reference: Muslim, Kitab al-Jana’iz 971/96. Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Jana’iz 3228. Nasai, Kitab al-Jana’iz 77/4.

② Sayyiduna Abu Murshid Ghannawi رضي الله عنه reports that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

لا تجلسوا على القبور ولا تصلوا إليها

“Do not sit on graves, nor pray facing them.”

Reference: Muslim, Kitab al-Jana’iz 972/97. Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Jana’iz 3229.