Ruling on Taking Back Gifts After Engagement Is Broken
Question:
If an engagement is called off, is it permissible to take back the ring, clothes, or other gifts that were given during the engagement?
❖ Answer by: Fadheelat al-Bahith Kamran Ilahi Zaheer حفظه الله
All such items are considered to be gifts (Hadiyyah) in Islamic law.
According to established Shar‘i principles, taking back a gift is not permissible.
✅ Conclusion:
Therefore, if an engagement ends, it is not permissible in Shari‘ah to take back the ring, clothes, or any other items that were given as gifts.
These remain the property of the recipient.
📚 Shar‘i Principle Referenced:
- Gifts (هدايا) cannot be reclaimed once given, as per the general ruling in authentic Hadith unless under very specific exceptions (such as a father giving to a child).
