Adapted from: The book 500 Questions and Answers for Women, based on the fatwas of the scholars of Haramain. Translated by Hafiz Abdullah Saleem.
Question:
What is the recommended supplication when a husband and wife engage in intimacy? Is there any specific prayer or action required after intimacy?
Answer:
When a husband and wife intend to engage in intimacy (jimaa’), it is recommended (mustahabb) for both to recite the following supplication:
“بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ، وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا“
“In the name of Allah, O Allah, keep Satan away from us, and keep Satan away from what You provide us (i.e., offspring) as a result of this.”
[Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith 141; Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1434]
Purpose of the Supplication
- Protection from Satan: This supplication seeks Allah’s protection from Satan interfering during intimacy or with any resulting offspring.
- Noble Intention: Both husband and wife should intend to seek chastity, modesty, and the blessings of procreation through this act, rather than merely fulfilling physical desires.
Clarifications
- No Specific Prayer After Intimacy:
There is no prescribed prayer for either spouse to perform after intimacy. - Friday Ghusl (Bath) and Supplication:
No specific supplication is required for the Friday ghusl (ritual bath). It is an act of cleanliness and worship.
Conclusion
- Before Intimacy: Recite the recommended supplication seeking Allah’s protection from Satan.
- After Intimacy: Perform ghusl (ritual bath) before engaging in acts of worship or daily activities, as there are no specific prayers or supplications required immediately after intimacy.
- Always maintain a noble intention to seek Allah’s pleasure through lawful marital relations.
And Allah knows best.
