سنن سعید بن منصور
Sunan Sa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابُ الْإِقَامَةِ عِنْدَ الْبِكْرِ وَالثَّيِّبِ
Staying with a virgin and a previously married woman
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حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، قَالَ: لَمَّا دَخَلَتْ أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ بِكِ عَلَى أَهْلِكِ هَوَانٌ، فَإِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ وَإِلَّا فَثَلَّثْتُكِ ثُمَّ أَدُورُ»
When Lady Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), he said: "You have no insignificance in the eyes of your family. If you wish, I can appoint seven nights for you, otherwise three nights, then I will begin the division (i.e., fairness)."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ قَالَ: أنا حُمَيْدٌ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: «أَصَابَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ صَفِيَّةَ بِنْتَ حُيَيٍّ حِينَ اتَّخَذَهَا أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا ثَلَاثًا»
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married Safiyyah bint Huyayy (may Allah be pleased with her) and stayed with her for three days."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ، قَالَ: أنا خَالِدٌ، عَنْ أَبِي قِلَابَةَ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ: «إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ الْبِكْرَ عَلَى الثَّيِّبِ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا سَبْعًا، ثُمَّ قَسَمَ، وَإِذَا تَزَوَّجَ الثَّيِّبَ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا ثَلَاثًا» قَالَ خَالِدٌ فِي حَدِيثِهِ: وَلَوْ قُلْتُ لَهُ إِنَّهُ رَفَعَ الْحَدِيثَ لَصَدَقْتُ وَلَكِنْ قَالَ: السُّنَّةُ كَذَلِكَ.
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "When a man marries a virgin after a widow, he should stay with her for seven days, then divide (his time), and if he marries a widow, he should stay with her for three days." Khalid says: If I say that this hadith is marfu‘, I would be truthful, but he said: "This is the Sunnah."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ، أنا حُمَيْدٌ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ أَنَسَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ، يَقُولُ مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated the same.
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ، أنا حُمَيْدٌ، وَيُونُسُ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ: «إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ الْبِكْرَ عَلَى الثَّيِّبِ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا ثَلَاثًا، وَإِذَا تَزَوَّجَ الثَّيِّبَ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا لَيْلَتَيْنِ» .
Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "If someone marries a virgin after a widow, he should stay for three days, and if he marries a widow after a virgin, he should stay for two days."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ، أنا خَالِدٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ سِيرِينَ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ كَمَا قَالَ الْحَسَنُ
Ibn Sirin (may Allah have mercy on him) also said the same as Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him).
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ، أنا شُعْبَةُ، عَنِ الْحَكَمِ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لِأُمِّ سَلَمَةَ حِينَ دَخَلَتْ: «إِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ وَسَبَّعْتُ لِنِسَائِي» .
The Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) said to Lady Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) when she came to him after marriage: "If you wish, I can set aside seven nights for you, and then also seven nights for my other wives."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نا هُشَيْمٌ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ سَمَّاهُ مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ
Yahya bin Sa'id (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates that a person related a similar incident.
