السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: ما جاء في معانقة الرجل الرجل، إذا لم تكن مؤدية إلى تحريك شهوة
Reports on a man embracing a man, when it does not lead to arousing desire
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، ثنا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، ثنا حَمَّادٌ، أنبأ أَبُو الْحَسَنِ يَعْنِي خَالِدَ بْنَ ذَكْوَانَ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ بْنِ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ كَعْبٍ الْعَدَوِيِّ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ عَنَزَةَ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ لِأَبِي ذَرٍّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ حَيْثُ سُيِّرَ مِنَ الشَّامِ: إِنِّي أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَسْأَلَكَ عَنْ حَدِيثٍ مِنْ حَدِيثِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: إِذًا أُخْبِرُكَ بِهِ إِلَّا أَنْ يَكُونَ سِرًّا، قُلْتُ: إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ بِسِرٍّ، هَلْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يُصَافِحُكُمْ إِذْ لَقِيتُمُوهُ؟ قَالَ: مَا لَقِيتُهُ قَطُّ إِلَّا صَافَحَنِي، وَبَعَثَ إِلِيَّ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ وَلَمْ أَكُنْ فِي أَهْلِي، فَلَمَّا جِئْتُ أُخْبِرْتُ أَنَّهُ أَرْسَلَ إِلِيَّ فَأَتَيْتُهُ وَهُوَ عَلَى سَرِيرِهِ فَالْتَزَمَنِي، فَكَانَتْ تِلْكَ الْحَالَةُ أَجْوَدَ وَأَجْوَدَ.
A man from Anazah said to Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him), when he was sent away from al-Sham: "I want to ask you about a hadith of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)." He said: "Then I will tell you, unless it is a secret." I said: "It is not a secret. Did the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) shake hands with you when you met him?" He said: "Whenever I met him (peace and blessings be upon him), he (peace and blessings be upon him) shook hands with me. One day he sent someone for me while I was not at home. When I came home, I was told that he (peace and blessings be upon him) had sent someone for me, so I went to him (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) was sitting on his couch, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) embraced me. That was a very fine moment, very fine indeed."
وَأَمَّا الْحَدِيثُ الَّذِي أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُقْرِئِ، ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ، ثنا يُوسُفُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا أَبُو الرَّبِيعِ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، ثنا حَنْظَلَةُ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ أَنَسَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قِيلَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَيَنْحَنِي بَعْضُنَا لِبَعْضٍ إِذَا الْتَقَيْنَا؟ قَالَ: " لَا " قَالَ: فَيَلْتَزِمُ بَعْضُنَا بَعْضًا؟ قَالَ: " لَا " قَالَ: فَيُصَافِحُ بَعْضُنَا بَعْضًا؟ قَالَ: " نَعَمْ "، وَهَذَا يَتَفَرَّدُ بِهِ حَنْظَلَةُ السَّدُوسِيُّ وَقَدْ كَانَ اخْتَلَطَ، تَرَكَهُ يَحْيَى الْقَطَّانُ لِاخْتِلَاطِهِ، وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
It is narrated from Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that it was said: O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! When we meet, should we bow to one another? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No." Then he asked: Should we embrace one another? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No." Then he asked: Should we shake hands? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Yes."
Only Hanzalah al-Sadusi narrated this, and he had become confused (in his memory); Yahya al-Qattan abandoned him because of his confusion. And Allah knows best.
Only Hanzalah al-Sadusi narrated this, and he had become confused (in his memory); Yahya al-Qattan abandoned him because of his confusion. And Allah knows best.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ، ثنا شَبَابَةُ بْنُ سَوَّارٍ، ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ الْأَسَدِيُّ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ الشَّعْبِيَّ، يُحَدِّثُ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهُ كَانَ بِمَاءٍ لَهُ، فَبَلَغَهُ أَنَّ الْحُسَيْنَ بْنَ عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُمَا، تَوَجَّهَ الْعِرَاقَ، فَلَحِقَهُ، فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ فِي أَمْرِهِ بِالرُّجُوعِ، فَأَبَى أَنْ يَرْجِعَ، فَاعْتَنَقَهُ ابْنُ عُمَرَ وَبَكَى، وَقَالَ: " أَسْتَوْدِعُكَ اللهَ مِنْ قَتِيلٍ " هَكَذَا رَوَاهُ شَبَابَةُ، وَرَوَاهُ سَعِيدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنْ سَالِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ.
Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) was at a water (spring) of his when news reached him that Husayn bin Ali (may Allah be pleased with them both) was heading for Iraq, so he caught up with him. (The narrator) mentioned the long hadith in which he told him to turn back, but he refused to turn back. Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) embraced him, wept and said: 'Astawdi'uka Allaha min qatil' (I entrust you to Allah, fearing that you will be slain).
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو نَصْرِ بْنُ قَتَادَةَ، أنبأ أَبُو الْحَسَنِ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ السَّرَّاجُ، ثنا يُوسُفُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْقَاضِي، ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، ثنا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ غَالِبٍ التَّمَّارِ قَالَ: كَانَ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سِيرِينَ يَكْرَهُ الْمُصَافَحَةَ، فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِلشَّعْبِيِّ، فَقَالَ: " كَانَ أَصْحَابُ مُحَمَّدٍ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا الْتَقَوْا صَافَحُوا، فَإِذَا قَدِمُوا مِنْ سَفَرٍ عَانَقَ بَعْضُهُمْ بَعْضًا " وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Muhammad bin Sirin (may Allah have mercy on him) used to dislike shaking hands. The narrator said: I mentioned this to al-Sha'bi (may Allah have mercy on him), and he said: The Companions of Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), whenever they met, would shake hands, and when they returned from a journey, they would embrace one another.
