Ata (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I held a wedding feast for my son and invited al-Qasim bin Muhammad (may Allah have mercy on him) and Ubaydullah bin Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah have mercy on him). When the two of them reached the door, Ubaydullah (may Allah have mercy on him) saw that the house had been hung with silk curtains, so he went back, but al-Qasim bin Muhammad (may Allah have mercy on him) went into the house. I said: "By Allah, he has become displeased with me by going back." I said: "May Allah set you right; by Allah, I did not do this; it was the women who did it and overpowered us in it." He said: (Al-Qasim narrated to me that) Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) arranged the marriage of his son Salim, and he invited people to the wedding, among them Abu Ayyub al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him). When Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him) saw the house adorned with silk curtains, he stopped at the door of the house and said: "O Abu Abd al-Rahman! You have done this, that you have hung curtains on the walls!" Then he left. In another narration: Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) invited Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him). Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him) saw curtains hanging on the walls in the house, and Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "The women got the better of us." Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Whoever I feared for, I did not fear for you. By Allah, I will not eat your food." (And he went back.)
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الصداق / 14590