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Musnad al-Humaydi — Hadith 372

372 - حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ قَالَ: ثنا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ: ثنا ابْنُ أَبِي الْحُسَيْنِ، عَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ يَزِيدَ تَقُولُ: بَايَعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي نِسْوَةٍ فَقَالَ: «فِيمَا اسْتَطَعْتُنَّ وَأَطَقْتُنَّ» فَقُلْنَا: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ بَايِعْنَا فَقَالَ: «إِنِّي لَا أُصَافِحُكُنَّ إِنَّمَا آخُذُ عَلَيْكُنَّ مَا أَخَذَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ»
Shahr bin Hawshab narrates: I heard Sayyida Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) saying: I, along with some women, pledged allegiance to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). He (peace be upon him) said: "I will not shake hands with you. I have taken from you the pledge that Allah, the Exalted, was to take" (or as Allah, the Exalted, had commanded).
Hadith Reference مسند الحميدي / 372
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده حسن
Hadith Takhrij «إسناده حسن : وأخرجه ابن ماجه فى «سننه» برقم: 3298، وأحمد فى «مسنده» ، برقم: 28208، والحميدي في«مسنده» برقم: 371،372، وأخرجه الطبراني في«الكبير» برقم: 63،410، 459»
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
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Offering food to those present while eating is a good habit.

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When food is offered, one should not hesitate to accept it if hungry.

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If not hungry, there is no harm in not accepting such an offer. One should express gratitude; however, it is better to take a bite or two.

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Lying is not good even in situations of formality. One should adopt some other appropriate manner for excusing oneself.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 3298