It is narrated from Sayyiduna al-Ashajj al-Asari (may Allah be pleased with him) that he came with a delegation of the tribe of Abd al-Qays to visit the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). When they arrived and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) appeared before them, they made their mounts kneel and hurried towards the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), still wearing their travelling clothes. But Sayyiduna al-Ashajj al-Asari (may Allah be pleased with him) stayed behind and tied up his companions' mounts along with his own camel, then he took his (fine) clothes out of his bag and put them on, and this whole scene was before the eyes of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Then he came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and greeted him with salam. the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, there are two traits in you that Allah and His Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) love." He said: "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), what are those two?" He said: "Forbearance and deliberateness." He asked: "Are they in me by nature, or have I adopted them myself?" He said: "No, rather they have been placed in you by nature." He said: 'Alhamdu lillah' (All praise is for Allah). Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O people of Abd al-Qays, why is it that I see your faces changed?" They said: "O Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), we live in a land whose climate does not suit us, and we used to prepare in these (particular) vessels a nabidh that would digest the meat in our stomachs. Then, when we were forbidden from using these vessels, this is the (sickly) condition that you see in our faces." At this the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, vessels in themselves do not make anything lawful or unlawful; rather, every intoxicant is unlawful. And it should not be that you sit and keep drinking (intoxicating drinks) until, when the intoxication has spread through your veins, you start boasting over one another, and then a man attacks his cousin and strikes him with the sword, leaving him lame." The narrator said: That day, the lame man who had suffered that wound was present in the delegation.
Hadith Referenceمسند أبي يعلى الموصلي / حديث أشج عبد القيس / 6849
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده جيد
Hadith Takhrij«حکم الحدیث مسند ابی یعلی محققاً تنسیق حسين سليم أسد - مکتبہ شاملہ :قال حسين سليم أسد: إسناده جيد . » «قال سعيد بن محمد السناري: ضعيف بهذا السياق والتمام» «أخرجه مسند أحمد برقم: 17373، وأخرجه مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد برقم: 16056، 16058، مسند ابویعلیٰ ترقیم الاثری: 6814»