It is narrated from Sayyidah Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to Madinah, he (peace and blessings be upon him) gathered the women of the Ansar in a house, then sent Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) to us. He came and greeted us with peace, and we returned his greeting. Then he said: "I am the messenger of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) to you." We said: "Welcome to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and to his messenger." She said: Then Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) asked: "Do you pledge allegiance to me that you will not commit adultery, will not steal, will not kill your children, will not bring forth a slander that you have invented between your hands and feet, and will not disobey in anything ma'ruf (good)?" We replied: "Yes." Sayyidah Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Then we stretched out our hands from inside the house, and Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) stretched out his hand from outside the house. "And he (peace and blessings be upon him) also ordered us to bring out the menstruating women and the secluded young maidens on the two Eids, and he forbade us from following funerals, and the Friday prayer is not obligatory upon us." Isma'il bin Abd al-Rahman (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I asked: "What is that ma'ruf (good deed) in which you were forbidden to disobey?" She replied: "It means wailing over the dead."
Hadith Referenceمسند أبي يعلى الموصلي / مسند عمر بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه / 226
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده حسن
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