مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
ما قالوا في (المرأة) تهب نفسها لزوجها
A woman who gives herself to her husband as a gift
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١٨٢١٦ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا ابن عيينة عن أيوب بن موسى عن ابن قسيط أن سعيد بن المسيب سئل عن رجل (بُشّر بجارية) (١) فقال بعض القوم: هبها لي فقال سعيد بن المسيب: لم تحل الموهوبة لأحد بعد رسول اللَّه ﷺ و (لو) (٢) أصدقها سوطًا حلت له.
Ibn Qusayt (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Sa'id bin al-Musayyib (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked about a man who was given the news of the birth of a daughter, and a man said to him: Will you give her to me as a gift? Sa'id bin al-Musayyib (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A woman given as a gift is not lawful to anyone after the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him); but if he gives her even a whip as her dower, she becomes lawful for him.
١٨٢١٧ - حدثنا عبد الرحمن بن مهدي عن زمعة عن ابن طاوس عن أبيه قال: لا يحل لأحد أن يهب ابنته بغير مهر إلا للنبي ﷺ.
Tawus (may Allah have mercy on him) said: It is not permissible for anyone to give his daughter as a gift without a dower; this was only for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
١٨٢١٨ - حدثنا غندر عن شعبة قال: سألت الحكم وحمادًا عن رجل وهب ابنته لرجل (فقالا) (١): لا يجوز إلا بصداق.
Shu'bah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I asked al-Hakam and Hammad (may Allah have mercy on them) about a man giving his daughter to a man as a gift. They said: It is not permissible without a dower.
١٨٢١٩ - حدثنا إسماعيل بن عياش عن (عبيد اللَّه) (١) بن عبيد قال: سئل مكحول عن الرجل يهب أخته أو ابنته (لرجل) (٢) ولا يفرض لها صداقًا، فقال مكحول والزهري: لم تحل الموهوبة لأحد بعد رسول اللَّه ﷺ.
Makhul (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked whether a man may give his daughter or sister to someone as a gift and waive the dower. Makhul and al-Zuhri (may Allah have mercy on them) said: A woman given as a gift is not lawful to anyone after the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him).
١٨٢٢٠ - حدثنا يزيد بن هارون عن محمد بن سالم عن الشعبي قال: أيما امرأة وهبها أبوها لرجل أو وهبت نفسها لرجل فلها (مهر) (١) مثلها إن دخل بها وإلا فإنما عليه المتعة إن طلقها قبل أن يدخل بها.
Al-Sha'bi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Any woman who gives herself to a man as a gift, or whose father gives her to a man as a gift, is entitled to the customary dower (mahr al-mithl) if he has consummated the marriage; and if he has not consummated it and divorces her before consummation, she is entitled to a parting gift (mut'ah).
١٨٢٢١ - حدثنا عبيدة بن حميد عن عبد الملك قال: سئل عطاء عن امرأة وهبت نفسها لرجل قال: لا يكون إلا بصداق (١).
Ata (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked about a woman giving herself to a man as a gift. He said: It is not permissible without a dower.
١٨٢٢٢ - حدثنا (عبدة) (١) بن سليمان عن هشام بن عروة عن أبيه عن عائشة أنها قالت: ما تستحي امرأة أن تهب نفسها لرجل حتى أنزل اللَّه (تعالى) (٢): ﴿تُرْجِي مَنْ تَشَاءُ (مِنْهُنَّ وَتُؤْوِي إِلَيْكَ مَنْ تَشَاءُ) (٣)﴾ [الأحزاب: ٥١]، قالت: فقلت إن ربك ليسارع لك في هواك.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: A woman would not feel shy of giving herself to a man as a gift, until Allah Almighty revealed this verse: "You may put off whom you will of them and take to yourself whom you will" [Al-Ahzab: 51]. Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: After this verse was revealed, I said to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): Your Lord hastens to fulfil your wishes.
١٨٢٢٣ - حدثنا يعلى بن (عبيد) (١) عن عبد الملك عن عطاء في امرأة وهبت ⦗٥٢٤⦘ نفسها (لرجل) (٢) فقال: لا يصلح إلا بصداق، (٣) لم يكن ذلك إلا للنبي ﷺ.
Ata (may Allah have mercy on him) said: It is not permissible for a woman to give herself to a man as a gift without a dower; this was exclusive to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
