Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 18006 — The right of a husband over his wife

Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Once a man brought his daughter to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "This daughter of mine refuses to marry." the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to the girl: "Obey your father." The girl said: "I will not marry until you tell me what the husband's right over his wife is." the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The husband's right over his wife is that if the husband had an ulcer and his wife licked that ulcer, or if pus or blood streamed from his nostrils and his wife licked it, she still would not have fulfilled his right." At this the girl said: "Then by the One who sent you with the truth, I will never marry." Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her father: "Do not marry women off without their permission."