Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 12399 — The punishment of the grave and what

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) that Sayyidah Umm Habibah (may Allah be pleased with her) supplicated thus: "O Allah! Let me benefit from my husband Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), my father Abu Sufyan and my brother Mu'awiyah." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You have asked Allah about decrees that have already been fixed, days that have already been counted and provision that has already been allotted. Nothing will come before its appointed time nor be delayed beyond it. Had you asked Allah Almighty for deliverance from the punishment of Hell and deliverance from the punishment of the grave, that would have been better and more excellent."