Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 11681 — What is prohibited of crying out

Shaqiq said: When Sayyiduna Khalid bin al-Walid (may Allah be pleased with him) died, the women of Banu al-Mughirah gathered and began to weep. People said to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): "Send word to them and stop them, so that nothing you dislike reaches you from them." Sayyiduna Umar said: "There is no sin on them in the tears they shed over Abu Sulayman, as long as they do not throw dust on their heads or scream and raise a clamour."