Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 11679 — What is prohibited of crying out

Iyad al-Ash'ari said: When Sayyiduna Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) fainted, his wife began to scream. When he recovered, he said to his wife: "Do you not know what I told you?" He said: Then, when he died, she did not wail over him. We asked: "What did Abu Musa tell you?" His wife said: He said: "He is not one of us who shaves (his head), or tears open his collar, or screams and wails."