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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 8961 — A man from the tribe of Bajilah came

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنِ الثَّوْرِيِّ، وَمَعْمَرٍ، عَنِ الْأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ أَبِي وَائِلٍ، قَالَ: جَاءَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَجِيلَةَ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ، فَقَالَ: إِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ جَارِيَةً بِكْرًا، وَإِنِّي قَدْ خَشِيتُ أَنْ تَفْرِكَنِي، فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ: «إِنَّ الْإِلْفَ مِنَ اللهِ، وَإِنَّ الْفَرْكَ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ، لِيُكَرِّهَ إِلَيْهِ مَا أَحَلَّ اللهُ لَهُ، فَإِذَا دَخَلْتَ عَلَيْهَا فَمُرْهَا فَلْتُصَلِّ خَلْفَكَ رَكْعَتَيْنِ» قَالَ الْأَعْمَشُ: فَذَكَرْتُهُ لِإِبْرَاهِيمَ، فَقَالَ: قَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ: " وَقُلْ: اللهُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِي أَهْلِي، وَبَارِكْ لَهُمْ فِيَّ، اللهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي مِنْهُمْ وَارْزُقْهُمْ مِنِّي، اللهُمَّ اجْمَعَ بَيْنَنَا مَا جَمَعْتَ إِلَى خَيْرٍ، وَفَرِّقْ بَيْنَنَا إِذَا فَرَّقْتَ إِلَى خَيْرٍ "
Abu Wa'il (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A man from the tribe of Bajilah came to Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) and said: I have married a virgin girl, and I fear that she will come to dislike me. Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Affection is from Allah, and aversion is from Satan, so that he may make hateful to him what Allah has made lawful for him. When you go in to her, tell her to pray two rak'ahs behind you." Al-A'mash said: I mentioned this to Ibrahim, and he told me that Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "And say this supplication: 'O Allah, bless me in my family and bless them in me. O Allah, provide for me through them and provide for them through me. O Allah, keep us together in goodness for as long as You keep us together, and if You separate us, separate us towards goodness.'"
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب العين / 8961
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 9، صفحہ 204، حدیث 8993