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المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
باب الألف
Companions Whose Names Begin with Alif (أ)
باب في كفارة الظهار
Chapter: Expiation for zihar
Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 612 — Sayyidah Khuwaylah bint Tha'labah, who was
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ خَالِدٍ الْحَرَّانِيُّ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحِيمِ الْبَرْقِيُّ، ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ خَالِدٍ الْحَرَّانِيُّ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقِ، عَنْ مَعْمَرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ حَنْظَلَةَ، عَنْ يُوسُفَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ سَلَّامٍ، حَدَّثَتْنِي خُوَيْلَةُ بِنْتُ ثَعْلَبَةَ، وَكَانَتْ عِنْدَ أَوْسِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ أَخِي عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ، قَالَتْ: دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ، وَكَلَّمَنِي بِشَيْءٍ، وَهُوَ فِيهِ كَالضِّجِرِ، فَرَادَدْتُهُ، فَقَالَ: أَنْتِ عَلَيَّ كَظَهْرِ أُمِّي، ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَجَلَسَ فِي نَادِي قَوْمِهِ، ثُمَّ رَجَعَ إِلَيَّ، فَأَرَادَنِي عَلَى نَفْسِي، فَامْتَنَعْتُ مِنْهُ فَشَادَدَنِي فَشَادَدْتُهُ، فَغَلَبْتُهُ بِمَا تَغْلِبُ بِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ الرَّجُلَ الضَّعِيفَ، فَقُلْتُ: كَلَّا وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ خُوَيْلَةَ بِيَدِهِ، لَا تَصِلُ إِلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَحْكُمَ اللهُ فِيَّ وَفِيكَ حُكْمَهُ، فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَشْكُو إِلَيْهِ مَا لَقِيتُ مِنْهُ، فَقَالَ: «زَوْجُكِ، وَابْنُ عَمِّكِ فَاتَّقِي اللهَ» وَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: {قَدْ سَمِعَ اللهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا} [المجادلة: ١] ، حَتَّى بَلَغَ الْكَفَّارَةَ، ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «مُرِيهِ فَلْيَعْتِقْ رَقَبَةً» قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، وَاللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ رَقَبَةٌ يَعْتِقُهَا، قَالَ: «فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ» قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ، وَاللهِ مَا بِهِ مِنْ صِيَامٍ، قَالَ: «فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا» قَالَتْ: وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ مَا يُطْعِمُ، قَالَ: «سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ» - وَالْعَرَقُ يَسَعُ ثَلَاثِينَ صَاعًا - قُلْتُ: وَأَنَا أُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ آخَرَ، قَالَ: «أَحْسَنْتِ، مُرِيهِ فَلْيَتَصَدَّقْ بِهِ»
Sayyidah Khuwaylah bint Tha'labah (may Allah be pleased with her), who was married to Sayyiduna Aws bin al-Samit (may Allah be pleased with him), the brother of Sayyiduna Ubadah bin al-Samit (may Allah be pleased with him), relates: One day he came in to me and said something to me while he was somewhat irritable about it, and I answered him back. At that he said: You are to me like my mother's back (he pronounced zihar). Then he went out and sat in the gathering place of his people, then came back to me and wanted to be intimate with me, but I refused him. He struggled with me and I struggled with him, and I overpowered him in the way a woman overpowers a weak man. I said: Never! By the One in whose hand is the soul of Khuwaylah, you shall not reach me until Allah passes His judgement concerning me and you. Then I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and complained to him of what I had suffered from him, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He is your husband and the son of your paternal uncle, so fear Allah." And Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, revealed this verse: "Indeed, Allah has heard the words of the woman who disputes with you concerning her husband" [Surah al-Mujadilah: 1], until it reached the expiation. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Tell him to free a slave." I said: O Messenger of Allah! By Allah, he has no slave to free. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then let him fast two consecutive months." I said: O Messenger of Allah! He is an old man; by Allah, he has no strength to fast. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then let him feed sixty poor people." I said: O Messenger of Allah! By Allah, he has nothing with which to feed them. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "We will help him with an araq (basket) of dates" - and an araq held thirty sa' - I said: And I will help him with another araq. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You have done well. Tell him to give it in charity."
