It is narrated from Sayyidah Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her); she said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) used to order us to guard our private parts and our tongues, and he would say: "These two will lead you (into calamity) and will not bring you back."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / مسند النساء / 21627