Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: No Qurashi woman has borne to a Qurashi man a child better for her in terms of religion than Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), and no Qurashi woman has borne to a Qurashi man a child better for her in terms of this world than me. At this Ma'n bin Yazid al-Sulami (may Allah be pleased with him) said: No Qurashi woman has borne to a Qurashi man a child better for her in terms of religion than Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), but no Qurashi woman has borne to a Qurashi man a child worse for her in terms of this world than you. Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Why? He said: Because you have accustomed them to a habit such that it is as if I can see them seeking it from someone other than you, and you will find them lying fallen in the roads. Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Woe to you! By Allah, I have been hiding this within my own heart for so long.
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الميم / 17117