Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 16378 — his father said: I was with the Prophet

Rabi', the son of Sayyiduna Ka'b bin Ujrah (may Allah be pleased with him), narrated that his father said: I was with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) when he said (to a Companion): "O so-and-so, have you married?" He said: No. Then he said to me: "Have you married?" I said: Yes. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A virgin or a previously married woman?" I said: No, rather a previously married woman. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Why did you not marry a virgin, with whom you would play and who would play with you?"