It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not make your houses graveyards, and do not make my grave a place of festivity; and send blessings upon me, for your blessings reach me wherever you are."
Imam al-Tabarani (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "No one narrated this hadith from Ibn Abi Dhi'b (may Allah have mercy on him) with a connected chain except Abdullah bin Nafi'; Muslim bin Amr is alone in narrating it."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الأوسط / باب الميم / 8030
Hadith Takhrij«أخرجه أبو داود فى «سننه» برقم: 2042، وأحمد فى «مسنده» برقم: 8926»