It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I long for jihad, but I do not have the ability for it." He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Is either of your parents alive?" He said: "My mother." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Present your excuse before Allah by treating her well (that is, devote your full effort to serving her); then, when you have done that and your mother is pleased with you, you are one who performs Hajj, one who performs Umrah, and a mujahid. So fear Allah and be good to her."
Imam al-Tabarani (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "No one narrated this hadith from al-Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him) except Maymun bin Najih; Ibrahim bin al-Hajjaj is alone in narrating it from him; and this hadith is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) only with this chain."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الأوسط / باب العين / 4466
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