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المطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية
Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابُ إدخال الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى زوجها
Chapter: Bringing the bride to her husband
Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1638 — Bringing the bride to her husband
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حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو طَالِبٍ عَبْدُ الْجَبَّارِ بْنُ عَاصِمٍ ، نَبَا بَقِيَّةُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ ، عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ يَحْيَى ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ مُوسَى ، عَنْ مَكْحُولٍ ، عَنْ غُضَيْفِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ ، عَنْ عَطِيَّةَ بْنِ بُسْرٍ ، قَالَ : جَاءَ عَطَّافُ بْنُ وَدَاعَةَ الْهِلَالِيُّ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " يَا عَطَّافُ ، أَلَكَ زَوْجَةٌ ؟ " قَالَ : لَا ، قَالَ : " وَلَا جَارِيَةٌ ؟ " قَالَ : لَا ، قَالَ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " وَأَنْتَ صَحِيحٌ مُوسِرٌ ؟ " قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، الْحَمْدُ لِلهِ . قَالَ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " فَأَنْتَ إِذًا مِنْ إِخْوَانِ الشَّيَاطِينِ ; إِمَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ مِنْ رَهْبَانِيَّةِ النَّصَارَى فَأَنْتَ مِنْهُمْ ، وَإِمَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ مِنَّا ، فَاصْنَعْ كَمَا نَصْنَعُ ; فَإِنَّ مِنْ سُنَّتِنَا النِّكَاحَ .
شِرَارُكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ ، وَأَرَاذِلُ أَمْوَاتِكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ ; إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا لَهُ فِي نَفْسِي سِلَاحٌ أَبْلَغُ فِي الصَّالِحِينَ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا الْمُتَزَوِّجِينَ ، أُولَئِكَ الْمُطَهَّرُونَ الْمُبَرَّؤُونَ مِنَ الْخَنَا .
وَيْلَكَ يَا عَطَّافُ ، إِنَّهُنَّ صَوَاحِبُ دَاوُدَ ، وَصَوَاحِبُ أَيُّوبَ ، وَصَوَاحِبُ يُوسُفَ ، وَصَوَاحِبُ كُرْسُفٍ ... الْحَدِيثَ .
وَيْحَكَ يَا عَطَّافُ ، تَزَوَّجْ ; فَإِنَّكَ مِنَ الْمَزِيدِينَ . قَالَ : فَقَالَ عَطَّافٌ : يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ، لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُزَوِّجَنِي مَنْ شِئْتَ . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " قَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَ عَلَى اسْمِ اللهِ تَعَالَى وَبَرَكَتِهِ كَرِيمَةَ بِنْتَ كُلْثُومٍ الْحِمْيَرِيِّ ".
شِرَارُكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ ، وَأَرَاذِلُ أَمْوَاتِكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ ; إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا لَهُ فِي نَفْسِي سِلَاحٌ أَبْلَغُ فِي الصَّالِحِينَ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا الْمُتَزَوِّجِينَ ، أُولَئِكَ الْمُطَهَّرُونَ الْمُبَرَّؤُونَ مِنَ الْخَنَا .
وَيْلَكَ يَا عَطَّافُ ، إِنَّهُنَّ صَوَاحِبُ دَاوُدَ ، وَصَوَاحِبُ أَيُّوبَ ، وَصَوَاحِبُ يُوسُفَ ، وَصَوَاحِبُ كُرْسُفٍ ... الْحَدِيثَ .
وَيْحَكَ يَا عَطَّافُ ، تَزَوَّجْ ; فَإِنَّكَ مِنَ الْمَزِيدِينَ . قَالَ : فَقَالَ عَطَّافٌ : يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ، لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُزَوِّجَنِي مَنْ شِئْتَ . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " قَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَ عَلَى اسْمِ اللهِ تَعَالَى وَبَرَكَتِهِ كَرِيمَةَ بِنْتَ كُلْثُومٍ الْحِمْيَرِيِّ ".
It is narrated from Atiyyah bin Busr that Sayyiduna Attaf bin Wada'ah al-Hilali (may Allah be pleased with him) came into the noble presence of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: "O Attaf, do you have a wife?" He replied: No. He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "And not even a slave-woman?" He replied: No. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "And you are healthy and well-off?" He replied: Yes, 'Alhamdu lillah' (all praise is for Allah). Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then you are one of the brothers of the devils; either you adopt the monasticism of the Christians, in which case you will be counted among them, or, if you are one of us, then do as we do, for marriage is part of our Sunnah.
The worst of you are your unmarried ones, and the lowest of your dead are those who died unmarried; indeed Satan has no weapon more effective against righteous men than women, except against those who are married, for they are the ones who are purified and kept free from obscenity and indecency.
Woe to you, O Attaf! Indeed these (women) are the companions of Dawud, Ayyub and Yusuf (peace be upon them), and the companions of Kursuf.
May mercy be upon you, O Attaf! Marry, for you are among those who should be a means of increase (of the human race)." Attaf (may Allah be pleased with him) said: O Messenger of Allah, I will not marry until you yourself marry me to whomever you wish. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have married you, in the name of Allah Almighty and with His blessing, 'ala ismillahi ta'ala wa barakatihi' (in the name of Allah Almighty and with His blessing), to Karimah bint Kulthum al-Himyari."
The worst of you are your unmarried ones, and the lowest of your dead are those who died unmarried; indeed Satan has no weapon more effective against righteous men than women, except against those who are married, for they are the ones who are purified and kept free from obscenity and indecency.
Woe to you, O Attaf! Indeed these (women) are the companions of Dawud, Ayyub and Yusuf (peace be upon them), and the companions of Kursuf.
May mercy be upon you, O Attaf! Marry, for you are among those who should be a means of increase (of the human race)." Attaf (may Allah be pleased with him) said: O Messenger of Allah, I will not marry until you yourself marry me to whomever you wish. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have married you, in the name of Allah Almighty and with His blessing, 'ala ismillahi ta'ala wa barakatihi' (in the name of Allah Almighty and with His blessing), to Karimah bint Kulthum al-Himyari."
