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الادب المفرد
Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب الاستئذان
Book of Asking Permission
بَابُ قَوْلِ اللهِ: ﴿وَإِذَا بَلَغَ الأَطْفَالُ مِنْكُمُ الْحُلُمَ﴾ [النور: 59]
Chapter: "When your children reach puberty..."
Al-Adab al-Mufrad 1058 — "When your children reach puberty..."
حَدَّثَنَا مَطَرُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ الدَّسْتُوَائِيِّ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ أَبِي كَثِيرٍ، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، أَنَّهُ كَانَ إِذَا بَلَغَ بَعْضُ وَلَدِهِ الْحُلُمَ عَزَلَهُ، فَلَمْ يَدْخُلْ عَلَيْهِ إِلا بِإِذْنٍ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that when any of his children reached puberty, he would separate him, and he would not enter (his room) without permission.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Usman Muneeb
Benefits and Issues:
When children reach an age of understanding, they should be taught that they must seek permission before entering their parents’ room, especially at midday, after ‘Isha, and before Fajr; particular care should be taken regarding this.
When children reach an age of understanding, they should be taught that they must seek permission before entering their parents’ room, especially at midday, after ‘Isha, and before Fajr; particular care should be taken regarding this.
Source: Fadlullah al-Ahad: Urdu Commentary on al-Adab al-Mufrad, Page: 1058
