مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب الطلاقBook of Talaq
ما قالوا في الرجل يقول لامرأته: (لأغيظنك)
If a Man Says to His Wife, 'I Will Surely Be Very Angry with You,' What Is the Ruling?
Hadith 20259
٢٠٢٥٩ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا عبد الرحمن بن مهدي عن سفيان عن حماد قال: سمعته يقول: قلت لإبراهيم: ما الإيلاء؟ قال: [أن يحلف (لا) (١) يكلمها، ولا يجامعها، ولا يجمع رأسه رأسها] (٢) وليغيظنها [أو ليسوءنها.
Hazrat Hammad (may Allah have mercy on him) says that I asked Ibrahim (may Allah have mercy on him), "What is Ilaa?" He replied that it is when a man swears that he will not speak to his wife, he will not have intercourse with her, their heads will not come together. Or he will certainly and definitely show her great anger, or he will treat her very badly.
Hadith 20260
٢٠٢٦٠ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا عبد اللَّه بن مبارك عن معمر عن خصيف عن الشعبي في رجل قال لامرأته: واللَّه لأسوءنك قال: إن كان يعني بذلك امرأة يتزوجها، أو جارية يتسراها فليس بشيء، وإن كان يعني الجماع فهو إيلاء.
Hazrat Sha'bi (may Allah have mercy on him) says that if a man says to his wife, "By Allah, I will treat you very badly," and by this sentence he means that he will marry another woman or have intercourse with a slave woman, then this is nothing. But if he intends by it not to have intercourse (with his wife), then this is Ilaa.
Hadith 20261
٢٠٢٦١ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا أبو داود عن شعبة قال: سمعت الحكم يقول في الرجل قال لامرأته: واللَّه لأسوءنك، فتركها أربعة أشهر (قال) (١): (هو) (٢) إيلاء.
Hazrat Hakam (may Allah have mercy on him) says that if a man says to his wife, "By Allah! I will treat you very badly," and then leaves her for four months, then this is Ilaa.
