مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب الطلاقBook of Talaq
ما قالوا: في الرجل أو (المرأة) تسأل ابنها (أن) يطلق امرأته
If a Parent Tells Their Son to Divorce His Wife, What Is the Ruling?
Hadith 20177
٢٠١٧٧ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا يزيد بن هارون عن ابن أبي ذئب قال: نا الحارث بن عبد الرحمن عن حمزة بن عبد اللَّه بن عمر قال: كانت (تحت) (١) ابن ⦗٤٤٠⦘ عمر (امرأة) (٢) وكان يعجب بها (وكان عمر يكرهها) (٣) فقال (له) (٤): طلقها، فأبى (فذكرها) (٥) عمر لرسول اللَّه ﷺ فقال النبي ﷺ: "أطع أباك وطلقها (٦) " (٧).
Hazrat Hamzah bin Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates that Hazrat Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) had a wife whom he loved very much, while Hazrat Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) did not like that woman. Hazrat Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) told his son Hazrat Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) to divorce her. He refused to divorce her, so Hazrat Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) mentioned this matter to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: Obey your father and divorce her.
Hadith 20178
٢٠١٧٨ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا جرير عن (الركين) (١) عن أبي طلحة الأسدي قال: كنت جالسًا عند ابن عباس فأتاه أعرابيان (فاكتنفاه) (٢) فقال: أحدهما: إني منت أبغي إبلًا لي، فنزلت بقوم فأعجبتني فتاة لهم، فتزوجتها فحلف أبواي أن لا يضماها أبدا، وحلف الفتى فقال: عليه (ألف محرر) (٣) وألف هدية وألف بدنة إن طلقها، فقال ابن عباس: ما أنا بالذي آمرك أن تطلق امرأتك، ولا أن (تعق) (٤) والديك قال: فما أصنع بهذه المرأة؟ قال: إبرر والديك (٥).
Hazrat Abu Talha Asadi, may Allah have mercy on him, says that I was sitting with Hazrat Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them both, when two villagers came with their dispute. One said that while searching for my camel, I reached a certain tribe, and I liked one of their girls very much, so I married her. My parents swore that they would never accept this woman as their daughter-in-law. The boy swore that if he divorced her, it would be obligatory upon him to free one thousand slaves, give one thousand gifts, and give one thousand camels in charity. Hazrat Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them both, said: I neither order you to divorce her nor to disobey your parents. He asked: Then what should I do? He replied: Continue to treat your parents with kindness.
Hadith 20179
٢٠١٧٩ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا (١) محمد بن فضيل عن عطاء بن السائب عن أبي عبد الرحمن قال: كان من الحي فتى في بيت شلم (تزل) (٢) به أمه حتى (زوجته) (٣) ابنة عم له فعلق منها معلقًا، ثم قالت له أمه: طلقها، فقال: لا أستطيع، علقت مني (ما لا أستطيع) (٤) أن أطلقها معه، قالت: فطعامك (وشرابك) (٥) علي حرام حتى تطلقها فرحل إلى أبي الدرداء إلى الشام فذكر له شأنه فقال: (ما) (٦) أنا بالذي آمرك أن تطلق امرأتك، ولا أنا بالذي آمرك أن تعق والديك (٧).
Hazrat Abu Abdur Rahman (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates that in a certain tribe there was a young man whose mother insisted and got him married to his paternal cousin. Then the boy also began to love her. Later, his mother ordered him to divorce the girl. The young man said, "Now I have come to love her and I do not have the strength to divorce her." His mother said, "Your food and your water are forbidden to me until you divorce her." The young man traveled to Syria and reached Hazrat Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) and mentioned the whole story to him. He said, "I neither order you to divorce your wife nor do I tell you to disobey your mother."
Hadith 20180
٢٠١٨٠ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا (هشيم) (١) (عن) (٢) حميد عن الحسن قال: (جاءه) (٣) رجل فقال: إن أمه أمرته أن (يتزوج) (٤)، [ثم أمرته بعد ذلك أن يطلق؟ فقال (الحسن) (٥): ليس طلاقه امرأته] (٦)، من بر (أمه) (٧) في شيء.
A man came to Hazrat Hasan (may Allah be pleased with him) and said that his mother first ordered him to get married and then ordered him to now divorce his wife. Hazrat Hasan said that divorcing the wife is not a part of obedience to the mother.
