Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah

Hazrat Umar and Hazrat Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with them) say that for a man to say to his wife, "You have the choice," and to say, "Your matter is in your hands," are the same.

Hazrat Masruq (may Allah have mercy on him) says that for a man to say to his wife, "You have the choice," and to say, "Your matter is in your own hands," are the same.

Hazrat Ali, Hazrat Abdullah, and Hazrat Zaid (may Allah be pleased with them) state that for a man to say to his wife, "You have the choice," and to say, "Your matter is in your hands," are the same.

Ibrahim (may Allah have mercy on him) and Hazrat Sha’bi (may Allah have mercy on him) say that for a man to say to his wife, "You have the choice," and to say, "Your matter is in your hands," are the same.

Hazrat Umar bin Abdul Aziz (may Allah have mercy on him) says that a man's saying to his wife, "You have the choice," and saying, "Your matter is in your hands," are the same.