Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah

Hazrat Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) says that after believing in Allah Almighty, no greater good has been granted to a man than a woman with good character, who is very loving and bears children. And after disbelief, no greater calamity has befallen a man than a wife with bad character and a sharp tongue. Some women are such blessings that one cannot be disinterested in them, and some women are such calamities that one cannot escape from them.