مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب الجنائزBook of Funerals
من رخص في البكاء على الميتSome scholars permit weeping over the deceased
Hadith 12501
١٢٥٠١ - حدثنا وكيع ثنا هشام بن عروة عن أبيه عن عائشة قال: ذكر لها حديث ابن عمر: أن الميت (ليعذب) (١) ببكاء الحي فقالت: وهل أبو عبد الرحمن كما وهل يوم قليب (بدر) (٢) إنما قال رسول اللَّه ﷺ: "إنّه ليعذب وإنَّ أهله ليبكون عليه" (٣).
It is narrated from Hazrat Urwah that when the hadith of Hazrat Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) was mentioned before Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that the deceased is punished because of the weeping of the living, she said: Abu Abdur Rahman has made a mistake in this matter just as he made a mistake regarding the slain of the wells of Badr. Indeed, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Surely, the deceased is being punished while his family is weeping over him.
