This excerpt is taken from Sheikh Hussain bin Mubarak Al-Mosuli's Arabic book Al-Awamer wal-Nawahi, which was translated into Urdu by Muhammad Sarwar Gohar under the title Ahkamat o Mamnoaat.
① Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
ما زال جبريل يوصيني بالجار حتى ظننت أنه سيورثه
"Jibril (peace be upon him) kept advising me continuously about the neighbor until I thought he would make him an heir."
Reference: Bukhari, Book of Manners 6014, Muslim, Book of Virtue, Enjoining Good Manners, and Joining of the Ties of Kinship 140 / 2624.
① Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه narrates that a man came to the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم and began to complain about his neighbor. The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
اذهب فاصبر
"Go and be patient."
Then he came to the Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم two or three times with complaints. The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
اذهب فاطرح متاعك فى الطريق
"Go and unload your belongings and place them on the road."
So the man did as he was told. People passed by him and inquired, and he told them about his neighbor's behavior. People cursed him. So Allah also did the same to him. Some people gave him curses. Then the man went to his neighbor and said: Come back, you will no longer receive any complaint from me.
Reference: Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Adab 5153.
① It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
بحسب امرئ من الشر أن يحقر أخاه المسلم، كل المسلم على المسلم حرام، دمه وعرضه وماله، إن الله لا ينظر إلى أجسامكم ولا إلى صوركم ولا إلى أعمالكم ولكن ينظر إلى قلوبكم
"It is sufficient for a person to be considered bad that he belittles his Muslim brother. A Muslim is completely forbidden to another Muslim: his life, his honor, and his wealth are forbidden to him. Indeed, Allah does not look at your bodies or your appearances or your deeds, but He looks at your hearts."
Reference: Muslim, Book of Virtue, Enjoining Good Manners, and Joining of the Ties of Kinship 2564/32.
① It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr bin Aas رضي الله عنهما that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
إن الله يبغض البليغ من الرجال الذى يتخلل بلسانه كما تتخلل البقرة
"Allah dislikes men who exaggerate in speech and twist their tongues as the cow twists its tongue while chewing grass."
Reference: Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Adab 2853, Abu Dawood 5005.
② It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Mas'ud رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
إن الله يبغض البليغ من الرجال الذى يتحلك الكلام بلسانه كما تتحلك البقرة بلسانها
"Allah does not like the servant who is very talkative; he twists his words with his tongue as the cow twists its tongue while chewing grass."
Reference: Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Adab 2853.
