Keeping good names, changing bad names, and the commands to speak briefly

This excerpt is taken from Sheikh Hussain bin Mubarak Al-Mosuli's Arabic book Al-Awamer wal-Nawahi, whose Urdu translation has been done by Muhammad Sarwar Gohar Sahib under the title Ahkamat o Mamnoaat.


Instructions Regarding Choosing Good Names​


① Sayyiduna Abu Darda رضي الله عنه narrates, the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
إنكم تدعون يوم القيامة بأسمائكم وأسماء آبائكم فأحسنوا أسماءكم.
"On the Day of Resurrection, you will be called by your names and the names of your forefathers, so keep your names good."
Reference: Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Adab 4948, al-Darimi, Kitab al-Isti'dhan 2788, Musnad Ahmad, Musnad al-Ansar 5/194, the narration is weak because there is a discontinuity between Abdullah bin Abi Zakariya and Abu Darda رضي الله عنه.

② Sayyiduna Ibn Umar رضي الله عنهما narrate, the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
أحب الأسماء إلى الله تعالى عبد الله وعبد الرحمن.
"The most beloved names to Allah are Abdullah and Abdur-Rahman."
Reference: Muslim, Kitab al-Adab 2132, Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Adab 4949, Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Adab 2833, Ibn Majah, Kitab al-Adab 3728.

③ Sayyiduna Abu Wahb Jushmi رضي الله عنه narrates, the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
تسموا بأسماء الأنبياء، وأحب الأسماء إلى الله تعالى عبد الله وعبد الرحمن، وأصدقها حارث وهمام، وأقبحها حرب ومرة.
"Name yourselves after the names of the Prophets, peace be upon them. The most beloved names to Allah are Abdullah and Abdur-Rahman, the most truthful names are Harith and Hammam, and the worst names are Harb and Murrah."
Reference: Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Adab 4950, Nasai, Al-Khail 6/218, the narration is Hasan.


Changing a Bad Name​


① It is narrated from Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) used to change bad names.
Reference: Tirmidhi 3839, the narration is Hasan.

② Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) states that Juwayriya bint al-Harith's name was "Burrat." So the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) changed her name to Juwayriya, and he disliked it being said that they had come from "Burrat."
Reference: Muslim, Book of Adab 2140.

③ It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) changed the name Asiya and said:
أنت جميلة.
"You are Jameela (beautiful)."
Reference: Muslim, Book of Adab 2139, Tirmidhi, Book of Adab 2838, Ibn Majah 3733.

Abu Dawood states: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) changed the names As, Azizah, Atlah, Shaytan, Hukm, Azaab, Hibaab, and Shihab, and the name Harb to Salam, Mudtaji' to Munba'th, Ard Afrah to Khadra, Shu'b Dalaal to Shu'b Huda, Bani Raybah to Bani Rushd, and Banu Mughawiyah to Bani Rushd. Abu Dawood says: I have omitted the chains of narration for brevity.

Prohibition of Giving Unpleasant Names​


① Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
لأنهين أن يسمى رافع وبركة ويسار.
"I forbid the names Rafi', Barakat, and Yasar."
Reference: Tirmidhi, Book of Manners 2835.


② Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
إن عشت إن شاء الله أنهى أمتي أن يسموا نافعا وأفلح وبركة.
"Insha'Allah, if I live, I will forbid my Ummah from naming their children Nafi', Aflah, and Barakat."
Reference: Abu Dawood, Book of Manners 4960, Musnad Ahmad, and the remaining Musnad of the Most Frequent Narrators 3/412, Hadith 14618.


Instructions Regarding Speaking Concisely​


① It is narrated from Abu Zubay'ah that Sayyiduna Amr ibn al-As (may Allah be pleased with him) said: One day a man came and spoke a lot. He said: If he had spoken briefly and less, it would have been better for him. I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) say:
رأيت - أو أمرت - أن أتجوز فى القول فإن الجواز هو خير.
"I have been commanded to be concise in speech, for brevity is better."
Reference: Abu Dawood, Book of Manners 5008, the narration is Hasan.
 
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