Intercourse in the anus, causing harm to the husband, and prohibition of abstaining from the bed

This excerpt is taken from Sheikh Hussain bin Mubarak Al-Mawsili's Arabic book Al-Awamer wal Nawaahi, whose Urdu translation has been done by Muhammad Sarwar Gohar Sahib under the title Ahkamaat o Mamnooat.

Prohibition of Intercourse in the Back Passage​

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① It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas رضي الله عنهما that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
لا ينظر الله عزوجل إلى رجل أتى رجلا أو امرأة فى دبرها
"Allah Almighty will not look with mercy at the person who has intercourse with a man or woman in the back passage."

Reference: Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Rida' 1165.

② It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
ملعون من أتى امرأة فى دبرها
"The person who has intercourse with a woman in the back passage is accursed."

Reference: Abu Dawood, Kitab al-Nikah 2162. Musnad Ahmad, Baqi Musnad al-Mukashirin 5/585 Hadith 9746.

Prohibition of a Woman Hurting Her Husband​

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① It is narrated from Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
لا تؤذي امرأة زوجها فى الدنيا إلا قالت زوجته من الحور العين: لا تؤذيه قاتلك الله فإنما هو عندك دخيل يوشك أن يفارقك وينقلب إلينا
"If a woman causes harm to her husband in this world, then her (heavenly) wife, the houri, says: Do not harm him, may Allah destroy you! He is only a guest with you; it is near that he will separate from you and come to us."

Reference: Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Rida' 1174. Ibn Majah, Kitab al-Nikah 2014.

Prohibition of a woman avoiding her husband's bed​

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① Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
إذا دعا الرجل امرأته إلى الفراش فأبت أن تجيء ، فبات عليها غضبان لعنتها الملائكة حتى تصبح
"When a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses to come, and the husband spends the night angry with her, the angels curse that woman until morning."

Reference: Bukhari, Book of the Beginning of Creation 3237. Muslim, Book of Marriage 122 / 1436.

"When a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses to come while her husband is angry with her, the angels continue to curse her until morning."
② It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
والذي نفسي بيده ما من رجل يدعو امرأته إلى فراشه فتأبى عليه إلا كان الذى فى السماء ساخطا عليها حتى يرضى زوجها عنها
"By the One in Whose hand is my soul! If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, then until her husband is pleased with her, the Lord of the heavens remains displeased with her."

Reference: Muslim, Book of Marriage 122 / 1436.