Hadith 3367
´It was narrated from Al-Hasan and 'Abdullah, the sons of Muhammad, from their father, that 'Ali heard that a man did not see anything wrong with Mut'ah (temporary marriage). He said:` "You are confused, the Messenger of Allah forbade it, and the meat of domestic donkeys on the day of Khaibar."
Hadith 3368
It was narrated from 'Abdullah and Al-Hasan, the sons of Muhammad bin 'Ali, from their father, from 'Ali bin Abi Talib, that the Messenger of Allah on the Day of Khaibar forbade temporary marriage to women, and (he also forbade) the meat of tame donkeys.
Hadith 3369
´Malik bin Anas narrated that Ibn Shihab told him that 'Abdullah and Al-Hasan, the sons of Muhammad bin 'Ali, told him, that their father Muhammad bin 'Ali told them, that 'Ali bin Abi Talib, may Allah be pleased with him, said:` "The Messenger of Allah on the Day of Khaibar forbade temporary marriage to women." (One of the narrators) Ibn Al-Muthanna said: "The Day of Hunain." He said: "This is what 'Abdul-Wahhab narrated to us from his book."
Hadith 3420
أَخْبَرَنِي
كَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَرْبٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
الزُّبَيْدِيُّ ، قَالَ : سُئِلَ
الزُّهْرِيُّ ، كَيْفَ الطَّلَاقُ لِلْعِدَّةِ ؟ فَقَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
سَالِمُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ، أَنَّ
عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ , قَالَ : طَلَّقْتُ امْرَأَتِي فِي حَيَاةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ ، فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ عُمَرُ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَتَغَيَّظَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي ذَلِكَ فَقَالَ : " لِيُرَاجِعْهَا ، ثُمَّ يُمْسِكْهَا ، حَتَّى تَحِيضَ حَيْضَةً وَتَطْهُرَ ، فَإِنْ بَدَا لَهُ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَهَا طَاهِرًا قَبْلَ أَنْ يَمَسَّهَا ، فَذَاكَ الطَّلَاقُ لِلْعِدَّةِ كَمَا أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ " ، قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ : فَرَاجَعْتُهَا ، وَحَسَبْتُ لَهَا التَّطْلِيقَةَ الَّتِي طَلَّقْتُهَا .
´Salim bin 'Abdullah bin 'Umar narrated that 'Abdullah bin 'Umar said:` "I divorced my wife during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah while she was menstruating. 'Umar mentioned that to the Messenger of Allah, and the Messenger of Allah got angry about that and said: 'Let him take her back, then keep her until she has menstruated again and become pure again. Then if he wants to divorce her when she is pure and before he touches her (has intercourse with her), then that is divorce at the prescribed time as Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, has revealed.'" 'Abdullah bin 'Umar said: "So I took her back, but I still counted the divorce that I had issued to her."
Hadith 3431
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
ابْنُ الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ
مَالِكٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي
ابْنُ شِهَابٍ ، أَنَّ
سَهْلَ بْنَ سَعْدٍ السَّاعِدِيَّ أَخْبَرَهُ , أَنَّ عُوَيْمِرًا الْعَجْلَانِيَّ جَاءَ إِلَى عَاصِمِ بْنِ عَدِيٍّ ، فَقَالَ : " أَرَأَيْتَ يَا عَاصِمُ ، لَوْ أَنَّ رَجُلًا وَجَدَ مَعَ امْرَأَتِهِ رَجُلًا ، أَيَقْتُلُهُ فَيَقْتُلُونَهُ ، أَمْ كَيْفَ يَفْعَلُ ؟ سَلْ لِي يَا عَاصِمُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَنْ ذَلِكَ ، فَسَأَلَ عَاصِمٌ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، " فَكَرِهَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمَسَائِلَ وَعَابَهَا ، حَتَّى كَبُرَ عَلَى عَاصِمٍ مَا سَمِعَ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلَمَّا رَجَعَ عَاصِمٌ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ ، جَاءَهُ عُوَيْمِرٌ فَقَالَ : يَا عَاصِمُ ، مَاذَا قَالَ لَكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ؟ ، فَقَالَ عَاصِمٌ لِعُوَيْمِرٍ : لَمْ تَأْتِنِي بِخَيْرٍ ، قَدْ كَرِهَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمَسْأَلَةَ الَّتِي سَأَلْتَ عَنْهَا ، فَقَالَ عُوَيْمِرٌ : وَاللَّهِ لَا أَنْتَهِي حَتَّى أَسْأَلَ عَنْهَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَقْبَلَ عُوَيْمِرٌ حَتَّى أَتَى رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَسْطَ النَّاسِ ، فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، أَرَأَيْتَ رَجُلًا وَجَدَ مَعَ امْرَأَتِهِ رَجُلًا أَيَقْتُلُهُ فَتَقْتُلُونَهُ ، أَمْ كَيْفَ يَفْعَلُ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " قَدْ نَزَلَ فِيكَ وَفِي صَاحِبَتِكَ ، فَاذْهَبْ فَأْتِ بِهَا " ، قَالَ سَهْلٌ : فَتَلَاعَنَا وَأَنَا مَعَ النَّاسِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغَ عُوَيْمِرٌ ، قَالَ : كَذَبْتُ عَلَيْهَا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنْ أَمْسَكْتُهَا فَطَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا ، قَبْلَ أَنْ يَأْمُرَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " .
´Sahl bin Sa'd As-Sa'idi narrated that 'Uwaimir Al-'Ajlani came to 'Asim bin 'Adiy and said:` "What do you think, O 'Asim! If a man finds another man with his wife, should he kill him, and be killed in retaliation, or what should he do? O 'Asim! Ask the Messenger of Allah about that for me." So 'Asim asked the Messenger of Allah about that, and the Messenger of Allah disapproved of the question, and criticized the asking of too many questions until 'Asim felt upset. When 'Asim went back to his people, 'Uwaimir came to him and said: "O 'Asim, what did the Messenger of Allah say to you?" 'Asim said: "You have not brought me any good. The Messenger of Allah disapproved of the question you asked." 'Uwaimir said: "By Allah, I will go and ask the Messenger of Allah." So he went to the Messenger of Allah and found him in the midst of the people. He said: "O Messenger of Allah, what do you think if a man finds another man with his wife -should he kill him, and be killed in retaliation or what should he do?" The Messenger of Allah said: "Something has been revealed concerning you and your wife, so go and bring her here." Sahl said: "So they engaged in the procedure of Li'an, and I was among the people in the presence of the Messenger of Allah. When 'Uwaimir finished he said: "I would have been telling lies about her, O Messenger of Allah, if I keep her." So he divorced her thrice before the Messenger of Allah told him to do so."
Hadith 3437
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I got married to 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir, and what he has is like this fringe.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until he ('Abdur-Rahman) tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.'"
Hadith 3438
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ عَلِيٍّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ عِنْدَهُ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنِّي كُنْتُ تَحْتَ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ ، فَطَلَّقَنِي الْبَتَّةَ ، فَتَزَوَّجْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، وَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هَذِهِ الْهُدْبَةِ ، وَأَخَذَتْ هُدْبَةً مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا ، وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ بِالْبَاب , فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لَهُ ، فَقَالَ : يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، أَلَا تَسْمَعُ هَذِهِ تَجْهَرُ بِمَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ ، لَا ، حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ ، وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Prophet when Abu Bakr was with him, and she said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I was married to Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi and he divorced me, and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir, and by Allah, O Messenger of Allah, what he has is like this fringe;' and she held up a fringe of her Jilbab. Khalid bin Sa'eed was at the door and he did not let him in. He said: 'O Abu Bakr? Do you not hear this woman speaking in such an audacious manner in the presence of the Messenger of Allah?' He said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until you taste his sweetness and he tastes your sweetness.'"
Hadith 3440
حَدَّثَنَا
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّ زَوْجِي طَلَّقَنِي ، فَأَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي ، وَإِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، وَمَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ ، فَضَحِكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ : " لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ ، لَا ، حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ ، وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'My husband divorced me and made it irrevocable. After that I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until he tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.'"
Hadith 3446
أَخْبَرَنَا
الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
الْأَوْزَاعِيُّ ، قَالَ : سَأَلْتُ
الزُّهْرِيَّ عَنِ الَّتِي اسْتَعَاذَتْ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عُرْوَةُ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ : " أَنَّ الْكِلَابِيَّةَ لَمَّا دَخَلَتْ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَتْ : أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنْكَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَقَدْ عُذْتِ بِعَظِيمٍ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ " .
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that when the Kilabi woman entered upon the Prophet she said:` "I seek refuge with Allah from you." The Messenger of Allah said: "You have sought refuge with One Who is Great. Go back to your family."
Hadith 3451
´Ka'b bin Malik narrated the Hadith about when he stayed behind, and did not join the Messenger of Allah on the expedition to Tabuk. He told the story, and said:` "The envoy of the Messenger of Allah came to me and said: 'The Messenger of Allah commands you to stay away from your wife.' I said: 'Shall I divorce her or what?' He said: 'No, just keep away from her and do not approach her.' I said to my wife: 'Go to your family and stay with them until Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, decides concerning this matter.'"
Hadith 3453
´'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Abdullah bin Ka'b bin Malik narrated that his father said:` "I heard my father Ka'b bin Malik -who was one of the three whose repentance was accepted- say: 'The Messenger of Allah sent word to me and to my two companions saying: The Messenger of Allah commands you to keep away from your wives. I said to his envoy: Shall I divorce my wife, or what should I do? He said: No, just keep away from her, and do not approach her. I said to my wife: Go to your family and stay with them. So she went to them.'"
Hadith 3454
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُوسُفُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
حَجَّاجُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي
عُقَيْلٌ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ كَعْبٍ ، أَنَّ
عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ كَعْبٍ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ
كَعْبًا يُحَدِّثُ حَدِيثَهُ حِينَ تَخَلَّفَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي غَزْوَةِ تَبُوكَ ، وَقَالَ فِيهِ : إِذَا رَسُولُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَأْتِينِي ، وَيَقُولُ : " إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَأْمُرُكَ أَنْ تَعْتَزِلَ امْرَأَتَكَ ، فَقُلْتُ : أُطَلِّقُهَا ، أَمْ مَاذَا أَفْعَلُ ؟ قَالَ : بَلِ اعْتَزِلْهَا ، وَلَا تَقْرَبْهَا ، وَأَرْسَلَ إِلَى صَاحِبَيَّ بِمِثْلِ ذَلِكَ ، فَقُلْتُ لِامْرَأَتِي : الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ ، وَكُونِي عِنْدَهُمْ حَتَّى يَقْضِيَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِي هَذَا الْأَمْرِ " ، خَالَفَهُمْ مَعْقِلُ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ .
´'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Abdullah bin Ka'b bin Malik narrated that 'Abdullah bin Ka'b said:` "I heard Ka'b narrate the Hadith about when he stayed behind and did not join the Messenger of Allah on the expedition to Tabuk. He said: 'The envoy of the Messenger of Allah came to me and said: "The Messenger of Allah commands you to keep away from your wife." I said: "Shall I divorce her, or what should I do?" He said: "No, just keep away from her and do not approach her." And he sent similar instructions to my two companions. I said to my wife: "Go to your family and stay with them until Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, decides concerning this matter."'"
Hadith 3455
´It was narrated from Ma'qil, from Az-Zuhri who said:` "Abdur-Rahman bin 'Abdullah bin Ka'b narrated that his paternal uncle 'Ubaidullah bin Ka'b said: 'I heard my father Ka'b say: The Messenger of Allah sent word to me and my two companions saying: The Messenger of Allah commands you to keep away from your wives. I said to the envoy: Should I divorce my wife, or what should I do? He said: No, just keep away from her and do not come near her. I said to my wife: Go to your family and stay with them until Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, decides (concerning me). So she went to them.'"
Hadith 3456
´It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman bin Ka'b bin Malik that his father said:` "The envoy of the Messenger of Allah came to me and said: 'Keep away from your wife.' I said: 'Should I divorce her?' He said: 'No, but do not approach her.'" And he (the narrator) did not mention (the words): "Go to your family."
Hadith 3469
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُونُسُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
يُونُسُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ ،
وَمُوسَى بْنُ عُلَيٍّ , عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
أَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، أَنَّ
عَائِشَةَ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَتْ : " لَمَّا أُمِرَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِتَخْيِيرِ أَزْوَاجِهِ بَدَأَ بِي ، فَقَالَ : إِنِّي ذَاكِرٌ لَكِ أَمْرًا ، فَلَا عَلَيْكِ أَنْ لَا تُعَجِّلِي ، حَتَّى تَسْتَأْمِرِي أَبَوَيْكِ ، قَالَتْ : قَدْ عَلِمَ أَنَّ أَبَوَايَ لَمْ يَكُونَا لِيَأْمُرَانِّي بِفِرَاقِهِ ، قَالَتْ : ثُمَّ تَلَا هَذِهِ الْآيَةَ : يَأَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لأَزْوَاجِكَ إِنْ كُنْتُنَّ تُرِدْنَ الْحَيَاةَ الدُّنْيَا إِلَى قَوْلِهِ : جَمِيلا سورة الأحزاب آية 28 ، فَقُلْتُ : أَفِي هَذَا أَسْتَأْمِرُ أَبَوَيَّ ؟ فَإِنِّي أُرِيدُ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ ، وَرَسُولَهُ ، وَالدَّارَ الْآخِرَةَ ، قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : ثُمَّ فَعَلَ أَزْوَاجُ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِثْلَ مَا فَعَلْتُ ، وَلَمْ يَكُنْ ذَلِكَ حِينَ قَالَ لَهُنَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : وَاخْتَرْنَهُ طَلَاقًا مِنْ أَجْلِ أَنَّهُنَّ اخْتَرْنَهُ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah, the wife of the Prophet, said:` "When the Messenger of Allah was commanded to give his wives the choice, he started with me and said: 'I am going to say something to you and you do not have to rush (to make a decision) until you consult your parents.'" She said: "He knew that my parents would never tell me to leave him." She said: "Then he recited this Verse: 'O Prophet! Say to your wives: If you desire the life of this world, and its glitter, then come! I will make a provision for you and set you free in a handsome manner.' I said: 'Do I need to consult my parents concerning this? I desire Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, and His Messenger, and the home of the Hereafter.'" 'Aishah said: "Then the wives of the Prophet all did the same as I did, and that was not counted as a divorce, when the Messenger of Allah gave them the choice and they chose him."
Hadith 3470
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ ثَوْرٍ ، عَنْ
مَعْمَرٍ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " لَمَّا نَزَلَتْ وَإِنْ كُنْتُنَّ تُرِدْنَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ سورة الأحزاب آية 29 ، دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بَدَأَ بِي ، فَقَالَ : يَا عَائِشَةُ ، إِنِّي ذَاكِرٌ لَكِ أَمْرًا ، فَلَا عَلَيْكِ أَنْ لَا تُعَجِّلِي ، حَتَّى تَسْتَأْمِرِي أَبَوَيْكِ ، قَالَتْ : قَدْ عَلِمَ وَاللَّهِ ، أَنَّ أَبَوَيَّ لَمْ يَكُونَا لِيَأْمُرَانِّي بِفِرَاقِهِ ، فَقَرَأَ عَلَيَّ : يَأَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لأَزْوَاجِكَ إِنْ كُنْتُنَّ تُرِدْنَ الْحَيَاةَ الدُّنْيَا وَزِينَتَهَا سورة الأحزاب آية 28 , فَقُلْتُ : أَفِي هَذَا أَسْتَأْمِرُ أَبَوَيَّ ؟ فَإِنِّي أُرِيدُ اللَّهَ ، وَرَسُولَهُ " ، قَالَ أَبُو عَبْد الرَّحْمَنِ : هَذَا خَطَأٌ ، وَالْأَوَّلُ أَوْلَى بِالصَّوَابِ ، وَاللَّهُ سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى أَعْلَمُ .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "When the following was revealed: 'But if you desire Allah and His Messenger,' the Prophet came and started with me. He said: 'O 'Aishah, I am going to say something to you and you do not have to rush (to make a decision) until you consult your parents.'" She said: "He knew, by Allah, that my parents would never tell me to leave him. Then he recited to me: 'O Prophet! Say to your wives: If you desire the life of this world, and its glitter.'" "I said: 'Do I need to consult my parents concerning this? I desire Allah and His Messenger.'"
Hadith 3496
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَعْمَرٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو دَاوُدَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ ،
وَإِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ، عَنْ
عَاصِمِ بْنِ عَدِيٍّ ، قَالَ : جَاءَنِي عُوَيْمِرٌ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي الْعَجْلَانِ ، فَقَالَ : " أَيْ عَاصِمُ ، أَرَأَيْتُمْ رَجُلًا رَأَى مَعَ امْرَأَتِهِ رَجُلًا أَيَقْتُلُهُ فَتَقْتُلُونَهُ ، أَمْ كَيْفَ يَفْعَلُ يَا عَاصِمُ ؟ سَلْ لِي رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَسَأَلَ عَاصِمٌ عَنْ ذَلِكَ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَعَابَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمَسَائِلَ ، وَكَرِهَهَا ، فَجَاءَهُ عُوَيْمِرٌ ، فَقَالَ : مَا صَنَعْتَ يَا عَاصِمُ ؟ فَقَالَ : صَنَعْتُ أَنَّكَ لَمْ تَأْتِنِي بِخَيْرٍ ، كَرِهَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمَسَائِلَ وَعَابَهَا ، قَالَ عُوَيْمِرٌ : وَاللَّهِ لَأَسْأَلَنَّ عَنْ ذَلِكَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَانْطَلَقَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَسَأَلَهُ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " قَدْ أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِيكَ ، وَفِي صَاحِبَتِكَ ، فَأْتِ بِهَا ، قَالَ سَهْلٌ : وَأَنَا مَعَ النَّاسِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَجَاءَ بِهَا ، فَتَلَاعَنَا ، فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَاللَّهِ لَئِنْ أَمْسَكْتُهَا لَقَدْ كَذَبْتُ عَلَيْهَا ، فَفَارَقَهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ يَأْمُرَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِفِرَاقِهَا ، فَصَارَتْ سُنَّةَ الْمُتَلَاعِنَيْنِ " .
´It was narrated from Sahl bin Sa'd, from 'Asim bin 'Adiyy who said:` "Uwaimir, a man from Banu 'Ajlan, came and said: 'O 'Asim, what do you think if a man sees another man with his wife, should he kill him and be killed in retaliation, or what should he do? O 'Asim, ask the Messenger of Allah about that for me.'" So 'Asim asked the Messenger of Allah about that, and the Messenger of Allah disapproved of the question and criticized the asking of too many questions. Then 'Uwaimir came to him and said: "What happened, O 'Asim?" 'Asim said to 'Uwaimir: "What happened?! You have not brought me any good. The Messenger of Allah disapproved of the question I asked." 'Uwaimir said: "By Allah, I will go and ask the Messenger of Allah." So he went to the Messenger of Allah and asked him. The Messenger of Allah said: "Allah the Mighty and Sublime has revealed (something) concerning you and your wife, so bring her here." Sahl said: "I was among the people in the presence of the Messenger of Allah and he brought her and they engaged in the procedure of Li'an. He said: 'O Messenger of Allah, by Allah! If I keep her I would have been telling lies about her.' So he parted from her before the Messenger of Allah told him to separate from her, and that became the way of Li'an."
Hadith 3508
أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ ، عَنْ
أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ , " أَنَّ رَجُلًا مِنْ بَنِي فَزَارَةَ أَتَى رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : إِنَّ امْرَأَتِي وَلَدَتْ غُلَامًا أَسْوَدَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " هَلْ لَكَ مِنْ إِبِلٍ ، قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : فَمَا أَلْوَانُهَا ؟ قَالَ : حُمْرٌ ، قَالَ : فَهَلْ فِيهَا مِنْ أَوْرَقَ ؟ قَالَ : إِنَّ فِيهَا لَوُرْقًا ، قَالَ : فَأَنَّى تَرَى ، أَتَى ذَلِكَ ؟ قَالَ : عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : وَهَذَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ " .
´It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that a man from Banu Fazarah came to the Messenger of Allah and said:` "My wife has given birth to a black boy." The Messenger of Allah said: "Do you have camels?" He said: "Yes." He said: "What color are they?" He said: "Red." He said: "Are there any gray ones among them?" He said: "There are some gray ones among them." He said: "Where do you think they come from?" He said: "Perhaps it is hereditary." He said: "Likewise, perhaps this is hereditary."
Hadith 3509
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ بَزِيعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ ، عَنْ
أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، قَالَ : جَاءَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي فَزَارَةَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : إِنَّ امْرَأَتِي وَلَدَتْ غُلَامًا أَسْوَدَ ، وَهُوَ يُرِيدُ الِانْتِفَاءَ مِنْهُ ، فَقَالَ : " هَلْ لَكَ مِنْ إِبِلٍ ؟ قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : مَا أَلْوَانُهَا ؟ قَالَ : حُمْرٌ ، قَالَ : هَلْ فِيهَا مِنْ أَوْرَقَ ؟ قَالَ : فِيهَا ذَوْدُ وُرْقٍ ، قَالَ : فَمَا ذَاكَ تُرَى ؟ قَالَ : لَعَلَّهُ أَنْ يَكُونَ نَزَعَهَا عِرْقٌ ، قَالَ : فَلَعَلَّ هَذَا أَنْ يَكُونَ نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ , قَالَ : فَلَمْ يُرَخِّصْ لَهُ فِي الِانْتِفَاءِ مِنْهُ " .
´It was narrated that Abu Hurairah said:` "A man from Banu Fazarah came to the Prophet and said: 'My wife has given birth to a black boy' -and he wanted to disown him. He said: 'Do you have camels?' He said: 'Yes.' He said: 'What color are they?' He said: 'Red.' He said: 'Are there any gray ones among them?' He said: 'There are some gray camels among them.' He said: 'Why is that do you think?' He said: 'Perhaps it is hereditary.' He said: 'Perhaps this is hereditary.' And he did not permit him to disown him."
Hadith 3510
أَخْبَرَنَا
أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو حَيْوَةَ حِمْصِيٌّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
شُعَيْبُ بْنُ أَبِي حَمْزَةَ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ ، عَنْ
أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، قَالَ : " بَيْنَمَا نَحْنُ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَامَ رَجُلٌ ، فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنِّي وُلِدَ لِي غُلَامٌ أَسْوَدُ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَأَنَّى كَانَ ذَلِكَ ؟ قَالَ : مَا أَدْرِي ؟ قَالَ : فَهَلْ لَكَ مِنْ إِبِلٍ ؟ قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : فَمَا أَلْوَانُهَا ؟ قَالَ : حُمْرٌ ، قَالَ : فَهَلْ فِيهَا جَمَلٌ أَوْرَقُ ؟ قَالَ : فِيهَا إِبِلٌ وُرْقٌ ، قَالَ : فَأَنَّى كَانَ ذَلِكَ ؟ قَالَ : مَا أَدْرِي يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ؟ إِلَّا أَنْ يَكُونَ نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ ، قَالَ : وَهَذَا لَعَلَّهُ نَزَعَهُ عِرْقٌ ، فَمِنْ أَجْلِهِ قَضَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ هَذَا لَا يَجُوزُ لِرَجُلٍ أَنْ يَنْتَفِيَ مِنْ وَلَدٍ وُلِدَ عَلَى فِرَاشِهِ ، إِلَّا أَنْ يَزْعُمَ أَنَّهُ رَأَى فَاحِشَةً " .
´It was narrated that Abu Hurairah said:` "While we were with the Prophet, a man stood up and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, a black boy has been born to me.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'How did that happen?' He said: 'I do not know.' He said: 'Do you have camels?' He said: 'Yes.' He said: 'What color are they?' He said: 'Red.' He said: 'Are there any gray camels among them?' He said: 'There are some gray camels among them.' He said: 'Where do they come from?' He said: 'I do not know, O Allah's Messenger! Perhaps it is hereditary.' He said: 'Perhaps this is also hereditary.' Because of this, the Messenger of Allah decreed the following: 'It is not allowed for a man, to disown a child who was born on his bed, unless he claimed that he had seen an immoral act (Fahishah).'"
Hadith 3512
´It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Prophet said:` "The child is the bed's and for the fornicator is the stone."
Hadith 3513
´It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah said:` "The child is the bed's and for the fornicator is the stone."
Hadith 3514
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
اللَّيْثُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ , عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : اخْتَصَمَ سَعْدُ بْنُ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ ، وَعَبْدُ بْنُ زَمْعَةَ فِي غُلَامٍ ، فَقَالَ سَعْدٌ : هَذَا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، ابْنُ أَخِي عُتْبَةَ بْنِ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ عَهِدَ إِلَيَّ أَنَّهُ ابْنُهُ انْظُرْ إِلَى شَبَهِهِ ، وَقَالَ عَبْدُ بْنُ زَمْعَةَ : أَخِي وُلِدَ عَلَى فِرَاشِ أَبِي مِنْ وَلِيدَتِهِ ، فَنَظَرَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَى شَبَهِهِ ، فَرَأَى شَبَهًا بَيِّنًا بِعُتْبَةَ ، فَقَالَ : " هُوَ لَكَ يَا عَبْدُ ، الْوَلَدُ لِلْفِرَاشِ ، وَلِلْعَاهِرِ الْحَجَرُ ، وَاحْتَجِبِي مِنْهُ يَا سَوْدَةُ بِنْتُ زَمْعَةَ " ، فَلَمْ يَرَ سَوْدَةَ قَطُّ .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "Sa'd bin Abi Waqqas and 'Abd bin Zam'ah disputed over a boy. Sa'd said: 'O Messenger of Allah! This is the son of my brother 'Utbah bin Abi Waqqas, who made me promise to look after him because he is his son. Look at whom he resembles.' 'Abd bin Zam'ah said: 'He is my brother who was born on my father's bed to his slave woman.' The Messenger of Allah looked to determine at whom he resembled, and saw that he resembled 'Utbah. He said: 'He is for you, O 'Abd! The child is the bed's and for the fornicator is the stone. Veil yourself from him, O Sawdah bint Zam'ah.' And he never saw Sawdah again."
Hadith 3517
أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : اخْتَصَمَ سَعْدُ بْنُ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ ، وَعَبْدُ بْنُ زَمْعَةَ فِي ابْنِ زَمْعَةَ ، قَالَ سَعْدٌ : أَوْصَانِي أَخِي عُتْبَةُ إِذَا قَدِمْتَ مَكَّةَ ، فَانْظُرِ ابْنَ وَلِيدَةِ زَمْعَةَ ، فَهُوَ ابْنِي ، فَقَالَ عَبْدُ بْنُ زَمْعَةَ : هُوَ ابْنُ أَمَةِ ، أَبِي وُلِدَ عَلَى فِرَاشِ أَبِي ، فَرَأَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ شَبَهًا بَيِّنًا بِعُتْبَةَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " الْوَلَدُ لِلْفِرَاشِ ، وَاحْتَجِبِي مِنْهُ يَا سَوْدَةُ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "Sa'd bin Abi Waqqas and 'Abd bin Zam'ah disputed concerning a son of Zam'ah. Sa'd said: 'My brother 'Utbah urged me, if I came to Makkah: Look for the son of the slave woman of Zam'ah, for he is my son.' 'Abd bin Zam'ah said: 'He is the son of my father's slave woman who was born on my father's bed.' The Messenger of Allah saw that he resembled 'Utbah, but he said: 'The child is the bed's. Veil yourself from him, O Sawdah.'"
Hadith 3523
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
اللَّيْثُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ مَسْرُورًا تَبْرُقُ أَسَارِيرُ وَجْهِهِ ، فَقَالَ : " أَلَمْ تَرَيْ أَنَّ مُجَزِّزًا نَظَرَ إِلَى زَيْدِ بْنِ حَارِثَةَ وَأُسَامَةَ ، فَقَالَ : إِنَّ بَعْضَ هَذِهِ الْأَقْدَامِ لَمِنْ بَعْضٍ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah came to me looking happy and cheerful, and he said: 'Did you not see that Mujazziz looked at Zaid bin Harithah and Usamah and said: These feet belong to one another.'"
Hadith 3524
أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، قَالَتْ : دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ مَسْرُورًا ، فَقَالَ : " يَا عَائِشَةُ ، أَلَمْ تَرَيْ أَنَّ مُجَزِّزًا الْمُدْلِجِيَّ دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ وَعِنْدِي أُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ ، فَرَأَى أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ ، وَزَيْدًا ، وَعَلَيْهِمَا قَطِيفَةٌ ، وَقَدْ غَطَّيَا رُءُوسَهُمَا ، وَبَدَتْ أَقْدَامُهُمَا ، فَقَالَ : هَذِهِ أَقْدَامٌ بَعْضُهَا مِنْ بَعْضٍ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said:` "The Messenger of Allah came to me one day looking happy and said: 'O 'Aishah! Did you not see that Mujazziz Al-Mudliji came to me when Usamah bin Zaid was with me. He saw Usamah bin Zaid and Zaid with a blanket over them; their heads were covered but their feet were exposed, and he said: These feet belong to one another.'"
Hadith 3548
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُونُسُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
يُونُسُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، أَنَّ
عُبَيْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ حَدَّثَهُ ، أَنَّ
أَبَاهُ كَتَبَ إِلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَرْقَمَ الزُّهْرِيِّ يَأْمُرُهُ : أَنْ يَدْخُلَ عَلَى سُبَيْعَةَ بِنْتِ الْحَارِثِ الْأَسْلَمِيَّةِ ، فَيَسْأَلَهَا حَدِيثَهَا ، وَعَمَّا قَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ اسْتَفْتَتْهُ ، فَكَتَبَ
عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ يُخْبِرُهُ , أَنَّ
سُبَيْعَةَ أَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ سَعْدِ بْنِ خَوْلَةَ وَهُوَ مِنْ بَنِي عَامِرِ بْنِ لُؤَيٍّ ، وَكَانَ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا ، فَتُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا فِي حَجَّةِ الْوَدَاعِ وَهِيَ حَامِلٌ ، فَلَمْ تَنْشَبْ أَنْ وَضَعَتْ حَمْلَهَا بَعْدَ وَفَاتِهِ ، فَلَمَّا تَعَلَّتْ مِنْ نِفَاسِهَا تَجَمَّلَتْ لِلْخُطَّابِ ، فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا أَبُو السَّنَابِلِ بْنُ بَعْكَكٍ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ الدَّارِ ، فَقَالَ لَهَا : مَا لِي أَرَاكِ مُتَجَمِّلَةً لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ النِّكَاحَ ، إِنَّكِ وَاللَّهِ مَا أَنْتِ بِنَاكِحٍ حَتَّى تَمُرَّ عَلَيْكِ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا ، قَالَتْ سُبَيْعَةُ : فَلَمَّا قَالَ لِي ذَلِكَ : جَمَعْتُ عَلَيَّ ثِيَابِي حِينَ أَمْسَيْتُ ، فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَسَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ ، فَأَفْتَانِي : " بِأَنِّي قَدْ حَلَلْتُ حِينَ وَضَعْتُ حَمْلِي ، وَأَمَرَنِي بِالتَّزْوِيجِ إِنْ بَدَا لِي " .
´'Ubaidullah bin 'Abdullah narrated that his father wrote to 'Umar bin 'Abdullah bin Arqam Az-Zuhri, telling him to go to Subai'ah bint Al-Harith Al-Aslamiyyah and ask her about her Hadith and what the Messenger of Allah had said to her when she consulted him. 'Umar bin 'Abdullah wrote back to 'Abdullah bin 'Utbah telling him that Subai'ah told him, that she was married to Sahl bin Khawlah -who was from Banu 'Amir bin Lu-ayy and was one of those who had been present at Badr- and her husband died during the Farewell Pilgrimage while she was pregnant. She gave birth soon after he died, and when her Nifas ended she adorned herself to receive proposals of marriage. Abu As-Sanabil bin Ba'kak -a man from Banu 'Abd Ad-Dar- went to her and said to her:` 'Why do I see you adorned? Perhaps you want to get married, but by Allah you will not get married until four months and ten days have passed.' Subai'ah said: 'When he said that to me, I put on my clothes in the evening and went to the Messenger of Allah and asked him about that. He ruled that it had become permissible for me to marry when I gave birth, and he told me to get married if I wanted to.'"
Hadith 3549
´It was narrated from Yazid bin Abi Habib that Muhammad bin Muslim Az-Zuhri wrote to him mentioning that 'Ubaidullah bin 'Abdullah told him, that Zufar bin Aws bin Al-Hadathan An-Nasri told him that Abu As-Sanabil bin Ba'kak bin As-Sabbaq said to Subai'ah Al-Aslamiyyah:` "It is not permissible for you to get married until four months and ten days, the longer of the two periods, have passed." She went to the Messenger of Allah and asked him about that. She said that the Messenger of Allah ruled that she could get married when she had given birth. She was nine months pregnant when her husband died, and she was married to Sa'd bin Khawlah, who died during the Farewell Pilgrimage with the Messenger of Allah. She married a young man from her people when she had given birth to (the child).
Hadith 3550
أَخْبَرَنَا
كَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ ، عَنْ
الزُّبَيْدِيِّ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، أَنَّ
عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُتْبَةَ كَتَبَ إِلَى
عُمَرَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الْأَرْقَمِ الزُّهْرِيِّ : أَنِ ادْخُلْ عَلَى
سُبَيْعَةَ بِنْتِ الْحَارِثِ الْأَسْلَمِيَّةِ ، فَاسْأَلْهَا عَمَّا أَفْتَاهَا بِهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي حَمْلِهَا ، قَالَ : فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، فَسَأَلَهَا ، فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ : أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ سَعْدِ بْنِ خَوْلَةَ ، وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا ، فَتُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا فِي حَجَّةِ الْوَدَاعِ ، فَوَلَدَتْ قَبْلَ أَنْ تَمْضِيَ لَهَا أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا مِنْ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا ، فَلَمَّا تَعَلَّتْ مِنْ نِفَاسِهَا ، دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا أَبُو السَّنَابِلِ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ الدَّارِ ، فَرَآهَا مُتَجَمِّلَةً ، فَقَالَ : لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ النِّكَاحَ قَبْلَ أَنْ تَمُرَّ عَلَيْكِ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا ، قَالَتْ : فَلَمَّا سَمِعْتُ ذَلِكَ مِنْ أَبِي السَّنَابِلِ ، جِئْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَحَدَّثْتُهُ حَدِيثِي ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " قَدْ حَلَلْتِ حِينَ وَضَعْتِ حَمْلَكِ " .
´It was narrated from 'Ubaidullah bin 'Abdullah that 'Abdullah bin 'Utbah wrote to 'Umar bin 'Abdullah bin Al-Arqam Az-Zuhri, telling him:` "Go to Subai'ah bint Al-Harith Al-Aslamiyyah, and ask her about the ruling of the Messenger of Allah concerning her pregnancy." He said: "So 'Umar bin 'Abdullah went to her and asked her. She told him that she was married to Sa'd bin Khawlah, who was one of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah who had been present at Badr. He died during the Farewell Pilgrimage, and she gave birth before four months and ten days had passed since her husband's death. When her Nifas ended, Abu As-Sanabil -a man from Banu 'Abd Ad-Dar- went to her and saw that she had adorned herself. He said: 'Perhaps you want to get married before four months and ten days has passed?' She said: 'When I heard that from Abu As-Sanabil, I went to the Messenger of Allah and told him my story. The Messenger of Allah said: 'It is permissible for you to marry when you gave birth.''"
Hadith 3555
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah said:` "It is not permissible for a woman to mourn for anyone who dies for more than three days, except for her husband."
Hadith 3556
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Prophet said:` "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to mourn for more than three days, except for her husband."
Hadith 3576
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ رَافِعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
حُجَيْنُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
اللَّيْثُ ، عَنْ
عُقَيْلٍ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِي سَلَمَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، عَنْ
فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ أَنَّهَا أَخْبَرَتْهُ , " أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ أَبِي عَمْرِو بْنِ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ فَطَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلَاثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ ، فَزَعَمَتْ فَاطِمَةُ أَنَّهَا جَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَاسْتَفْتَتْهُ فِي خُرُوجِهَا مِنْ بَيْتِهَا ، فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَنْتَقِلَ إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ الْأَعْمَى " ، فَأَبَى مَرْوَانُ أَنْ يُصَدِّقَ فَاطِمَةَ فِي خُرُوجِ الْمُطَلَّقَةِ مِنْ بَيْتِهَا ، قَالَ عُرْوَةُ : أَنْكَرَتْ عَائِشَةُ ذَلِكَ عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ " .
´It was narrated from Abu Salamah bin 'Abdur-Rahman that Fatimah bint Qais told him that she was married to Abu 'Amr bin Hafs bin Al-Mughirah, who divorced her by giving her the last of three divorces. Fatimah said that she came to the Messenger of Allah and consulted him about leaving her house. He told her to move to the house of Ibn Umm Maktum, the blind man. Marwan refused to believe Fatimah about the divorced woman leaving her house. 'Urwah said:` "Aishah denounced Fatimah for that."
Hadith 3582
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ سَعِيدِ بْنِ كَثِيرِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
أَبِي ، عَنْ
شُعَيْبٍ ، قَالَ : قَالَ
الزُّهْرِيُّ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ ، أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عَمْرِو بْنِ عُثْمَانَ طَلَّقَ ابْنَةَ سَعِيدِ بْنِ زَيْدٍ وَأُمُّهَا حَمْنَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ الْبَتَّةَ ، فَأَمَرَتْهَا خَالَتُهَا فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ بِالِانْتِقَالِ مِنْ بَيْتِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو ، وَسَمِعَ بِذَلِكَ مَرْوَانُ ، فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا ، فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَرْجِعَ إِلَى مَسْكَنِهَا حَتَّى تَنْقَضِيَ عِدَّتُهَا ، فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَيْهِ تُخْبِرُهُ أَنَّ خَالَتَهَا
فَاطِمَةَ أَفْتَتْهَا بِذَلِكَ وَأَخْبَرَتْهَا , أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَفْتَاهَا بِالِانْتِقَالِ حِينَ طَلَّقَهَا أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ حَفْصٍ الْمَخْزُومِيُّ " , فَأَرْسَلَ مَرْوَانُ قَبِيصَةَ بْنَ ذُؤَيْبٍ إِلَى فَاطِمَةَ ، فَسَأَلَهَا عَنْ ذَلِكَ ، فَزَعَمَتْ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ أَبِي عَمْرٍو لَمَّا أَمَّرَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ عَلَى الْيَمَنِ خَرَجَ مَعَهُ ، فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا بِتَطْلِيقَةٍ وَهِيَ بَقِيَّةُ طَلَاقِهَا ، فَأَمَرَ لَهَا الْحَارِثَ بْنَ هِشَامٍ ، وَعَيَّاشَ بْنَ أَبِي رَبِيعَةَ بِنَفَقَتِهَا ، فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَى الْحَارِثِ ، وَعَيَّاشٍ تَسْأَلُهُمَا النَّفَقَةَ الَّتِي أَمَرَ لَهَا بِهَا زَوْجُهَا ، فَقَالَا : وَاللَّهِ مَا لَهَا عَلَيْنَا نَفَقَةٌ إِلَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ حَامِلًا ، وَمَا لَهَا أَنْ تَسْكُنَ فِي مَسْكَنِنَا إِلَّا بِإِذْنِنَا ، فَزَعَمَتْ فَاطِمَةُ أَنَّهَا أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ ، " فَصَدَّقَهُمَا " ، قَالَتْ : فَقُلْتُ : أَيْنَ أَنْتَقِلُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ؟ فَقَالَ : " انْتَقِلِي عِنْدَ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ ، وَهُوَ الْأَعْمَى الَّذِي عَاتَبَهُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِي كِتَابِهِ " ، فَانْتَقَلْتُ عِنْدَهُ فَكُنْتُ أَضَعُ ثِيَابِي عِنْدَهُ ، حَتَّى أَنْكَحَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، زَعَمَتْ أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ .
´'Ubaidullah bin 'Abdullah bin 'Utbah narrated that 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin 'Uthman divorced the daughter of Sa'eed bin Zaid -whose mother was Hamnah bint Qais- irrevocably. Her maternal aunt Fatimah bint Qais told her to move from the house of 'Abdullah bin 'Amr. Marwan heard of that, so he sent word to her, telling her to go back to her home until her 'Iddah was over. She sent a word to him telling him that her maternal aunt Fatimah had issued a Fatwa to that effect, and she told her that the Messenger of Allah had issued a Fatwa to her, telling her to move when Abu 'Amr bin Hafs Al-Makhzumi divorced her. Marwan sent Qabisah bin Dhu'aib to Fatimah to ask her about that. She said that she had been married to Abu 'Amr when the Messenger of Allah appointed 'Ali bin Abi Talib as governor of Yemen, and he went out with him, then he sent word to her divorcing her, and that was the final divorce for her. He told her to ask Al-Harith bin Hisham and 'Ayyash for her provisions that her husband had allocated for her. They said:` "By Allah, she is not entitled to any provision. So, she sent to Al-Harith bin Hisham and 'Ayyash asking them for the provisions from us unless she is pregnant, and she has no right to live in our house unless we permit her." Fatimah said that she went to the Messenger of Allah and told him about that and he said that they had told the truth. She said: "I said: 'Where shall I move to, O Messenger of Allah?' He said: 'Move to the house of Ibn Umm Maktum' -who was the blind man, concerning whom Allah rebuked him in His Book. I moved to his house, and I used to take off my outer garments." Then the Messenger of Allah married her to Usamah bin Zaid.
Hadith 3598
´It was narrated from Salim, from his father, that the Prophet said:` "Omens are only in three things: a woman, a horse or a house."
Hadith 3599
´It was narrated from 'Abdullah bin 'Umar that the Messenger of Allah said:` "Omens are in houses, women and horses."
Hadith 3648
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُونُسُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
يُونُسُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، قَالَ : فَإِنَّ
سَالِمًا أَخْبَرَنِي ، عَنْ
عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ، أَنّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : " مَا حَقُّ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ تَمُرُّ عَلَيْهِ ثَلَاثُ لَيَالٍ إِلَّا وَعِنْدَهُ وَصِيَّتُهُ " ، قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ : مَا مَرَّتْ عَلَيَّ مُنْذُ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ ذَلِكَ : إِلَّا وَعِنْدِي وَصِيَّتِي .
´It was narrated from 'Abdullah bin 'Umar that the Prophet said:` "It is not befitting for a Muslim to abide for three nights without having his will with him." 'Abdullah bin 'Umar said: "Since I heard this from the Messenger of Allah, I have always had my will with me."
Hadith 3649
´It was narrated from Salim bin 'Abdullah, from his father, that the Messenger of Allah said:` "It is not right for a Muslim who has anything concerning which a will should be made, to abide for more than three nights without having a written will with him."
Hadith 3656
أَخْبَرَنِي
عَمْرُو بْنُ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عَامِرِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، قَالَ : مَرِضْتُ مَرَضًا أَشْفَيْتُ مِنْهُ ، فَأَتَانِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَعُودُنِي ، فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ لِي مَالًا كَثِيرًا وَلَيْسَ يَرِثُنِي إِلَّا ابْنَتِي ، أَفَأَتَصَدَّقُ بِثُلُثَيْ مَالِي ؟ قَالَ : " لَا " ، قُلْتُ : فَالشَّطْرَ ؟ قَالَ : " لَا " ، قُلْتُ : فَالثُّلُثَ ؟ قَالَ : " الثُّلُثَ ، وَالثُّلُثُ كَثِيرٌ ، إِنَّكَ أَنْ تَتْرُكَ وَرَثَتَكَ أَغْنِيَاءَ خَيْرٌ لَهُمْ مِنْ أَنْ تَتْرُكَهُمْ عَالَةً يَتَكَفَّفُونَ النَّاسَ " .
´It was narrated from 'Amir bin Sa'd that his father said:` "I became ill with a sickness from which I later recovered. The Messenger of Allah came to visit me, and I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I have a great deal of wealth and I have no heir except my daughter. Shall I give two-thirds of my wealth in charity?' He said: 'No.' I said: 'Half?' He said: 'No.' I said: 'One-third?' He said: '(Give) one-third, and one-third is a lot. It is better to leave your heirs independent of means, than to leave them poor and holding out their hands to people.'"
Hadith 3676
أَخْبَرَنَا
سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
يُونُسُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
سَعِيدُ بْنُ الْمُسَيِّبِ ،
وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ , عَنْ
أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ أُنْزِلَ عَلَيْهِ : وَأَنْذِرْ عَشِيرَتَكَ الأَقْرَبِينَ سورة الشعراء آية 214 ، قَالَ : " يَا مَعْشَرَ قُرَيْشٍ ، اشْتَرُوا أَنْفُسَكُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا بَنِي عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا عَبَّاسُ بْنَ عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكَ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا صَفِيَّةُ عَمَّةَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكِ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتَ مُحَمَّدٍ ، سَلِينِي مَا شِئْتِ لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكِ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا " .
´It was narrated that Abu Hurairah said:` "The Messenger of Allah said, when the Verse: 'And warn your tribe (O Muhammad) of near kindred.' was revealed: 'O Quraish! Buy your souls from your Lord; I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O Banu 'Abdul-Muttalib! I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O 'Abbas bin 'Abdul-Muttalib! I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O Safiyyah, paternal aunt of the Messenger of Allah! I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O Fatimah bint Muhammad! Ask me for whatever you want, I cannot avail you anything before Allah.'"
Hadith 3677
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
بِشْرُ بْنُ شُعَيْبٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
سَعِيدُ بْنُ الْمُسَيِّبِ ،
وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، أن
أبا هريرة , قَالَ : قَامَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ أُنْزِلَ عَلَيْهِ : وَأَنْذِرْ عَشِيرَتَكَ الأَقْرَبِينَ سورة الشعراء آية 214 ، فَقَالَ : " يَا مَعْشَرَ قُرَيْشٍ ، اشْتَرُوا أَنْفُسَكُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا بَنِي عَبْدِ مَنَافٍ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا عَبَّاسُ بْنَ عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكَ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا صَفِيَّةُ عَمَّةَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكِ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، يَا فَاطِمَةُ ، سَلِينِي مَا شِئْتِ ، لَا أُغْنِي عَنْكِ مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا " .
´Abu Hurairah said:` "The Messenger of Allah stood up when the following was revealed to him: 'And warn your tribe (O Muhammad) of near kindred,' and said: 'O Quraish! Buy your souls from your Lord, I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O Banu 'Abd Manaf! I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O 'Abbas bin 'Abdul-Muttalib! I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O Safiyyah, paternal aunt of the Messenger of Allah! I cannot avail you anything before Allah. O Fatimah! Ask me for whatever you want, I cannot avail you anything before Allah.'"