Hadith 3238
´Narrated 'Urwah:` It was narrated from 'Urwah, that 'Aishah said: "The Messenger of Allah married me in Shawwal and my marriage was consummated in Shawwal." --'Aishah liked for her women's marriages to be consummated in Shawwal --"and which of his wives was more beloved to him than me?"
Hadith 3257
It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine.
Hadith 3258
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah married me when I was seven years old, and he consummated the marriage with me when I was nine."
Hadith 3259
´It was narrated that Abu 'Ubaidah said:` "Aishah said: 'The Messenger of Allah married me when I was nine and I lived with him for nine years.'"
Hadith 3260
It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was nine and he died when she was eighteen years old.
Hadith 3268
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Prophet said:` "Seek the permission of women with regard to marriage." It was said: "What if a virgin is too shy and remains silent?" He said: "That is her permission."
Hadith 3271
أَخْبَرَنَا
زِيَادُ بْنُ أَيُّوبَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
عَلِيُّ بْنُ غُرَابٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
كَهْمَسُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ ، عَنْ
عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، " أَنَّ فَتَاةً دَخَلَتْ عَلَيْهَا ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّ أَبِي زَوَّجَنِي ابْنَ أَخِيهِ لِيَرْفَعَ بِي خَسِيسَتَهُ وَأَنَا كَارِهَةٌ ، قَالَتْ : اجْلِسِي حَتَّى يَأْتِيَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ ، فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَى أَبِيهَا ، فَدَعَاهُ ، فَجَعَلَ الْأَمْرَ إِلَيْهَا ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَدْ أَجَزْتُ مَا صَنَعَ أَبِي وَلَكِنْ أَرَدْتُ أَنْ أَعْلَمَ أَلِلنِّسَاءِ مِنَ الْأَمْرِ شَيْءٌ ؟ " .
´It was narrated from 'Aishah:` "A girl came to her and said: 'My father married me to his brother's son so that he might raise his own status thereby, and I was unwilling.' She said: 'Sit here until the Prophet comes.' Then the Messenger of Allah came, and I told him (what she had said). He sent word to her father, calling him, and he left the matter up to her. She said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I accept what my father did, but I wanted to know whether women have any say in the matter.'"
Hadith 3285
أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّ رِفَاعَةَ طَلَّقَنِي فَأَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي ، وَإِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ وَمَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ ، فَضَحِكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَقَالَ : " لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not unitl he ('Abdur-Rahman) tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.'"
Hadith 3302
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Prophet said:` "What becomes unlawful (for marriage) through birth becomes unlawful through breast-feeding."
Hadith 3303
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
اللَّيْثُ ، عَنْ
يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ ، عَنْ
عِرَاكٍ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ أَنَّهَا أَخْبَرَتْهُ , أَنَّ عَمَّهَا مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ يُسَمَّى أَفْلَحَ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَيْهَا فَحَجَبَتْهُ ، فَأُخْبِرَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " لَا تَحْتَجِبِي مِنْهُ ، فَإِنَّهُ يَحْرُمُ مِنَ الرَّضَاعِ مَا يَحْرُمُ مِنَ النَّسَبِ " .
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that her paternal uncle through breast-feeding, whose name was Aflah, asked permission to meet her, and she observed Hijab before him. The Messenger of Allah was told about that and he said:` "Do not observe Hijab before him, for what becomes unlawful (for marriage) through breast-feeding is that which becomes unlawful through lineage."
Hadith 3304
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Prophet said:` "What becomes unlawful (for marriage) through breast-feeding is that which becomes unlawful through lineage."
Hadith 3305
´It was narrated that 'Amrah said:` "I heard 'Aishah say: The Messenger of Allah said: 'What becomes unlawful (for marriage) through breast-feeding is that which becomes unlawful through birth.'"
Hadith 3309
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "One of the things that Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, revealed" -(one of the narrators) Al-Harith said (in his narration): "One of the things that were revealed in the Qur'an"- "was that ten known breast-feedings make marriage prohibited, then that was abrogated and changed to five known breast-feedings. Then the Messenger of Allah passed away when this was something that was still being recited in the Qur'an."
Hadith 3312
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah said: 'Suckling once or twice does not make (marriage) prohibited.'"
Hadith 3313
´Sa'eed narrated from Qatadah:` "We wrote to Ibrahim bin Yazid An-Nakha'i asking him about breast-feeding. He wrote back saying that Shuraih had narrated that 'Ali and Ibn Mas'ud used to say: 'A little or a lot of breast-feeding makes marriage prohibited.'" In his book, it said that Abu Ash-Sha'tha' Al-Muharibi narrated that 'Aishah had told him that the Prophet of Allah used to say: "Suckling (Al-Khatfah) once or twice does not make (marriage) prohibited."
Hadith 3314
أَخْبَرَنَا
هَنَّادُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ فِي حَدِيثِهِ ، عَنْ
أَبِي الْأَحْوَصِ ، عَنْ
أَشْعَثَ بْنِ أَبِي الشَّعْثَاءِ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
مَسْرُوقٍ ، قَالَ : قَالَتْ
عَائِشَةُ : دَخَلَ عَلَيّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَعِنْدِي رَجُلٌ قَاعِدٌ ، فَاشْتَدَّ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهِ وَرَأَيْتُ الْغَضَبَ فِي وَجْهِهِ ، فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُ أَخِي مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ ، فَقَالَ : " انْظُرْنَ مَا إِخْوَانُكُنَّ وَمَرَّةً أُخْرَى انْظُرْنَ مَنْ إِخْوَانُكُنَّ مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ ، فَإِنَّ الرَّضَاعَةَ مِنَ الْمَجَاعَةِ " .
´It was narrated that Masruq said:` "Aishah said: 'The Messenger of Allah entered upon me and there was a man sitting with me. He got upset about that, and I saw the anger in his face.' I said: "O Messenger of Allah, he is my brother through breast-feeding." He said: "Be careful who you count as your brothers" --or: "be careful who you count as your brothers through breast-feeding"-- "for the breast-feeding (which makes marriage prohibited) is from hunger."
Hadith 3315
أَخْبَرَنَا
هَارُونُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مَعْنٌ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مَالِكٌ ، عَنْ
عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ، عَنْ
عَمْرَةَ ، أَنَّ
عَائِشَةَ أَخْبَرَتْهَا , أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ عِنْدَهَا وَأَنَّهَا سَمِعَتْ رَجُلًا يَسْتَأْذِنُ فِي بَيْتِ حَفْصَةَ ، قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَذَا رَجُلٌ يَسْتَأْذِنُ فِي بَيْتِكَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أُرَاهُ فُلَانًا لِعَمِّ حَفْصَةَ مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ " ، قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : فَقُلْتُ : لَوْ كَانَ فُلَانٌ حَيًّا لِعَمِّهَا مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِنَّ الرَّضَاعَةَ تُحَرِّمُ مَا يُحَرَّمُ مِنَ الْوِلَادَةِ " .
´It was narrated from 'Amrah that 'Aishah told her that the Messenger of Allah was with her, and she heard a man asking permission to enter Hafsah's house. 'Aishah said:` "I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, there is a man asking permission to enter your house.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'I think it is so-and-so the paternal uncle of Hafsah through breast-feeding.' 'Aishah said: If so-and-so (her own paternal uncle through breast-feeding) were alive, would he be allowed to enter upon me?' The Messenger of Allah said: 'What becomes unlawful (for marriage) through breast-feeding is that which becomes unlawful through birth.'"
Hadith 3316
أَخْبَرَنِي
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عَطَاءٌ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، أَنَّ
عَائِشَةَ , قَالَتْ : جَاءَ عَمِّي أَبُو الْجَعْدِ مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ فَرَدَدْتُهُ ، قَالَ : وَقَالَ هِشَامٌ : هُوَ أَبُو الْقُعَيْسِ : فَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " ائْذَنِي لَهُ " .
´It was narrated from 'Urwah that 'Aishah told him:` "My paternal uncle through breast-feeding, Abu Al-Ja'd, came to me, and I sent him away. -He (one of the narrators) said: "Hisham said: 'He was Abu Al-Qu'ais." - "Then the Messenger of Allah came, and I told him. The Messenger of Allah said: 'Give him permission (to enter).'"
Hadith 3317
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that the brother of Abu Al-Qu'ais asked permission to enter upon 'Aishah after the Verse of Hijab had been revealed, and she refused to let him in. Mention of that was made to the Prophet and he said:` "Let him in, for he is your paternal uncle." She said: "The woman breast-fed me, not the man." He said: "He is your paternal uncle, so let him visit you."
Hadith 3318
أَخْبَرَنَا
هَارُونُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ , أَنْبَأَنَا
مَعْنٌ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مَالِكٌ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : كَانَ أَفْلَحُ أَخُو أَبِي الْقُعَيْسِ يَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَيَّ وَهُوَ عَمِّي مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ ، فَأَبَيْتُ أَنْ آذَنَ لَهُ حَتَّى جَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ ، فَقَالَ : " ائْذَنِي لَهُ ، فَإِنَّهُ عَمُّكِ " , قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : وَذَلِكَ بَعْدَ أَنْ نَزَلَ الْحِجَابُ .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "Aflah, the brother of Abu Al-Qu'ais, who was my paternal uncle through breast-feeding, used to ask permission to enter upon me, and I refused to let him in until the Messenger of Allah came, and I told him about that. He said: 'Let him in, for he is your paternal uncle.'" 'Aishah said: "That was after the (Verse of) Hijab had been revealed."
Hadith 3319
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَبْدُ الْجَبَّارِ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ ، عَنْ
سُفْيَانَ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ،
وَهِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ , عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَيَّ عَمِّي أَفْلَحُ بَعْدَمَا نَزَلَ الْحِجَابُ ، فَلَمْ آذَنْ لَهُ ، فَأَتَانِي النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَسَأَلْتُهُ ، فَقَالَ : " ائْذَنِي لَهُ ، فَإِنَّهُ عَمُّكِ " , قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ , إِنَّمَا أَرْضَعَتْنِي الْمَرْأَةُ ، وَلَمْ يُرْضِعْنِي الرَّجُلُ ، قَالَ : " ائْذَنِي لَهُ تَرِبَتْ يَمِينُكِ فَإِنَّهُ عَمُّكِ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "My paternal uncle Aflah asked permission to enter upon me after the (Verse of) Hijab had been revealed, but I did not let him in. The Prophet came to me and I asked him (about that) and he said: 'Let him in, for he is your paternal uncle.' I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, the woman breast-fed me, not the man.' He said: 'Let him in, may your hands be rubbed with dust, for he is your uncle.'"
Hadith 3320
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "Aflah, the brother of Abu Al-Qu'ais, came and asked permission to enter, and I said: 'I will not let him in until I seek the permission of the Prophet of Allah.' When the Prophet of Allah came, I said to him: 'Aflah, the brother of Abu Al-Qu'ais, came and asked permission to enter, but I refused to let him in.' He said: 'Let him in, for he is your paternal uncle.' I said: 'The wife of Abu Al-Qu'ais breast-fed me; the man did not breast-feed me.' He said: 'Let him in, for he is your paternal uncle.'"
Hadith 3321
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُونُسُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
مَخْرَمَةُ بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ
حُمَيْدَ بْنَ نَافِعٍ , يَقُولُ : سَمِعْتُ
زَيْنَبَ بِنْتَ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ ، تَقُولُ : سَمِعْتُ
عَائِشَةَ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، تَقُولُ : جَاءَتْ سَهْلَةُ بِنْتُ سُهَيْلٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي لَأَرَى فِي وَجْهِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ مِنْ دُخُولِ سَالِمٍ عَلَيَّ ، قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَرْضِعِيهِ " قُلْتُ : " إِنَّهُ لَذُو لِحْيَةٍ " فَقَالَ : " أَرْضِعِيهِ يَذْهَبْ مَا فِي وَجْهِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ " , قَالَتْ : وَاللَّهِ مَا عَرَفْتُهُ فِي وَجْهِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ بَعْدُ " .
´Zainab bint Abi Salamah said:` "I heard 'Aisha, the wife of the Prophet say: 'Sahlah bint Suhail came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I see (displeasure) in the face of Abu Hudhaifah when Salim enters upon me.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Breast-feed him.' She said: 'He has a beard.' He said: 'Breast-feed him, and that will take away (the displeasure) in the face of Abu Hudhaifah.' She said: 'By Allah, I never saw that on the face of Abu Hudhaifah after that.'"
Hadith 3322
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْنَاهُ مِنْ
عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ وَهُوَ ابْنُ الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : جَاءَتْ سَهْلَةُ بِنْتُ سُهَيْلٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنِّي أَرَى فِي وَجْهِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ مِنْ دُخُولِ سَالِمٍ عَلَيَّ ، قَالَ : " فَأَرْضِعِيهِ " قَالَتْ : وَكَيْفَ أُرْضِعُهُ وَهُوَ رَجُلٌ كَبِيرٌ ، فَقَالَ : " أَلَسْتُ أَعْلَمُ أَنَّهُ رَجُلٌ كَبِيرٌ " ثُمَّ جَاءَتْ بَعْدُ ، فَقَالَتْ : وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ نَبِيًّا ، مَا رَأَيْتُ فِي وَجْهِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ بَعْدُ شَيْئًا أَكْرَهُ .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "Sahlah bint Suhail came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'I see (displeasure) in the face of Abu Hudhaifah when Salim enters upon me.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Breast-feed him.' She said: 'How can I breast-feed him when he is a grown man?' He said: 'Don't I know that he is a grown man?' Then she came after that and said: 'By the One Who sent you with the truth as a Prophet, I have never seen anything I dislike on the face of Abu Hudhaifah after that.'"
Hadith 3323
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah commanded the wife of Abu Hudhaifah to breast-feed Salim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhaifah, so that the protective jealousy of Abu Hudhaifah would be dispelled. She breast-fed him when he was a man." (One of the narrators) Rabi'ah said: "That was a concession granted to Salim."
Hadith 3324
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "Sahlah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, Salim enters upon us and he understands what men understand, and knows what men know.' He said: 'Breast-feed him, and you will become unlawful to him thereby.' (Ibn Abi Mulaikah, one of the narrators said:) For a year I did not narrate this, then I met Al-Qasim and he said: 'Narrate it and do not worry about it.'"
Hadith 3325
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ عَلِيٍّ ، عَنْ
عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
أَيُّوبُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ ، عَنْ
الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، أَنَّ سَالِمًا مَوْلَى أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ كَانَ مَعَ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ وَأَهْلِهِ فِي بَيْتِهِمْ ، فَأَتَتْ بِنْتُ سُهَيْلٍ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّ سَالِمًا قَدْ بَلَغَ مَا يَبْلُغُ الرِّجَالُ ، وَعَقَلَ مَا عَقَلُوهُ ، وَإِنَّهُ يَدْخُلُ عَلَيْنَا ، وَإِنِّي أَظُنُّ فِي نَفْسِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ مِنْ ذَلِكَ شَيْئًا ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَرْضِعِيهِ تَحْرُمِي عَلَيْهِ " ، فَأَرْضَعْتُهُ ، فَذَهَبَ الَّذِي فِي نَفْسِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ ، فَرَجَعْتُ إِلَيْهِ ، فَقُلْتُ : إِنِّي قَدْ أَرْضَعْتُهُ ، فَذَهَبَ الَّذِي فِي نَفْسِ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ .
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that Salim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhaifah, was with Abu Hudhaifah and his family in their house. The daughter of Suhail came to the Prophet and said:` "Salim has reached the age of manhood, and understands what men understand. He enters upon us, and I think that Abu Hudhaifah is not happy about that." The Prophet said: "Breast-feed him, and you will become unlawful to him." So she breast-fed him, and the displeasure of Abu Hudhaifah disappeared. She came back to him and said: "I breast-fed him and the displeasure of Abu Hudhaifah has disappeared."
Hadith 3328
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that Judamah bint Wahb told her that the Messenger of Allah said:` "I was thinking of forbidding Ghilah until I remembered that it is done by the Persians and Romans" -(one of the narrators) Ishaq said: "(They) do that -and it does not harm their children."
Hadith 3348
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُونُسُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى ،
وَسُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ , عَنْ
ابْنِ وَهْبٍ ، أَخْبَرَنِي
يُونُسُ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ ، أَنَّهُ سَأَلَ
عَائِشَةَ عَنْ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ : وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ سورة النساء آية 3 , قَالَتْ : " يَا ابْنَ أُخْتِي هِيَ الْيَتِيمَةُ تَكُونُ فِي حَجْرِ وَلِيِّهَا فَتُشَارِكُهُ فِي مَالِهِ ، فَيُعْجِبُهُ مَالُهَا وَجَمَالُهَا فَيُرِيدُ وَلِيُّهَا أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَهَا بِغَيْرِ أَنْ يُقْسِطَ فِي صَدَاقِهَا ، فَيُعْطِيَهَا مِثْلَ مَا يُعْطِيهَا غَيْرُهُ ، فَنُهُوا أَنْ يَنْكِحُوهُنَّ إِلَّا أَنْ يُقْسِطُوا لَهُنَّ وَيَبْلُغُوا بِهِنَّ أَعْلَى سُنَّتِهِنَّ مِنَ الصَّدَاقِ ، فَأُمِرُوا أَنْ يَنْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَهُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ سِوَاهُنَّ ، قَالَ عُرْوَةُ : قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : ثُمَّ إِنَّ النَّاسَ اسْتَفْتَوْا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بَعْدُ فِيهِنَّ فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ : وَيَسْتَفْتُونَكَ فِي النِّسَاءِ قُلِ اللَّهُ يُفْتِيكُمْ فِيهِنَّ سورة النساء آية 127 , إِلَى قَوْلِهِ : وَتَرْغَبُونَ أَنْ تَنْكِحُوهُنَّ سورة النساء آية 127 , قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : وَالَّذِي ذَكَرَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى أَنَّهُ يُتْلَى فِي الْكِتَابِ الْآيَةُ الْأُولَى الَّتِي فِيهَا : وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ سورة النساء آية 3 , قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : وَقَوْلُ اللَّهِ فِي الْآيَةِ الْأُخْرَى : وَتَرْغَبُونَ أَنْ تَنْكِحُوهُنَّ سورة النساء آية 127 , رَغْبَةَ أَحَدِكُمْ عَنْ يَتِيمَتِهِ الَّتِي تَكُونُ فِي حَجْرِهِ حِينَ تَكُونُ قَلِيلَةَ الْمَالِ وَالْجَمَالِ ، فَنُهُوا أَنْ يَنْكِحُوا مَا رَغِبُوا فِي مَالِهَا مِنْ يَتَامَى النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا بِالْقِسْطِ ، مِنْ أَجْلِ رَغْبَتِهِمْ عَنْهُنَّ " .
´'Urwah bin Az-Zubair narrated that he asked 'Aishah about the saying of Allah, the Mighty and Sublime:` "And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls then marry (other) women of your choice." She said: "O son of my sister, this refers to a female orphan who is in the care of her guardian, and her wealth is joined to his, and he is attracted to her wealth and her beauty. So her guardian wants to marry her without being fair with regard to her dowry, and without giving her what someone else would give her. So they were forbidden to marry them unless they were fair to them and gave them the highest possible dowry that is customarily given, and they were commanded to marry other women of their choice." 'Urwah said: "'Aishah said: 'Then later on, Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, revealed concerning them: 'They ask your legal instruction concerning women, say: Allah instructs you about them, and about what is recited unto you in the Book concerning the orphan girls whom you give not the prescribed portions and yet whom you desire to marry.' 'Aishah said: 'What Allah, Most High, mentioned here that is recited in the Book is the first Verse in which it says: And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with orphan girls then marry (other) women of your choice.' 'Aishah said: 'What is referred to in the other Verse -and yet whom you desire to marry- is the desire of one of you not to marry orphan girl who is under his care if she is lacking in wealth and beauty. So they were forbidden to marry those orphan women to whose wealth they were attracted unless they were fair, because of their desire not to marry (those who were lacking in wealth and beauty.)'"
Hadith 3349
´It was narrated that Abu Salamah said:` "I asked 'Aishah about that and she said: 'The Messenger of Allah got married (and married his daughters) for twelve Uqiyah and a Nashsh'" which is five hundred Dirhams.
Hadith 3379
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Prophet married me in Shawwal, and he consummated the marriage with me in Shawwal, and which of his wives find more favor with him than me?"
Hadith 3380
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ آدَمَ ، عَنْ
عَبْدَةَ ، عَنْ
هِشَامٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ : " تَزَوَّجَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَنَا بِنْتُ سِتٍّ ، وَدَخَلَ عَلَيَّ وَأَنَا بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ ، وَكُنْتُ أَلْعَبُ بِالْبَنَاتِ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah married me when I was six, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine, and I used to play with dolls."
Hadith 3381
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah married me when I was six, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine."
Hadith 3436
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ ، عَنْ
الْأَعْمَشِ ، عَنْ
إِبْرَاهِيمَ , عَنْ
الْأَسْوَدِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : سُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ ، فَتَزَوَّجَتْ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ فَدَخَلَ بِهَا ، ثُمَّ طَلَّقَهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ يُوَاقِعَهَا ، أَتَحِلُّ لِلْأَوَّلِ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ الْآخَرُ عُسَيْلَتَهَا ، وَتَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَهُ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The Messenger of Allah was asked about a man who divorced his wife, and she married another man who had a closed meeting with her then divorced her, before having intercourse with her. Is it permissible for her to remarry the first husband? The Messenger of Allah said: 'No, not until the second one tastes her sweetness and she tastes his sweetness.'"
Hadith 3437
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I got married to 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir, and what he has is like this fringe.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until he ('Abdur-Rahman) tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.'"
Hadith 3438
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ عَلِيٍّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ عِنْدَهُ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنِّي كُنْتُ تَحْتَ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ ، فَطَلَّقَنِي الْبَتَّةَ ، فَتَزَوَّجْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، وَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هَذِهِ الْهُدْبَةِ ، وَأَخَذَتْ هُدْبَةً مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا ، وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ بِالْبَاب , فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لَهُ ، فَقَالَ : يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، أَلَا تَسْمَعُ هَذِهِ تَجْهَرُ بِمَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ ، لَا ، حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ ، وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Prophet when Abu Bakr was with him, and she said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I was married to Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi and he divorced me, and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir, and by Allah, O Messenger of Allah, what he has is like this fringe;' and she held up a fringe of her Jilbab. Khalid bin Sa'eed was at the door and he did not let him in. He said: 'O Abu Bakr? Do you not hear this woman speaking in such an audacious manner in the presence of the Messenger of Allah?' He said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until you taste his sweetness and he tastes your sweetness.'"
Hadith 3440
حَدَّثَنَا
إِسْحَاق بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّ زَوْجِي طَلَّقَنِي ، فَأَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي ، وَإِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، وَمَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ ، فَضَحِكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ : " لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ ، لَا ، حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ ، وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ " .
´It was narrated that 'Aishah said:` "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'My husband divorced me and made it irrevocable. After that I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until he tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.'"
Hadith 3441
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَحْيَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي
عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي
الْقَاسِمُ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ , أَنَّ رَجُلًا طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ ثَلَاثًا ، فَتَزَوَّجَتْ زَوْجًا فَطَلَّقَهَا ، قَبْلَ أَنْ يَمَسَّهَا ، فَسُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : أَتَحِلُّ لِلْأَوَّلِ ؟ فَقَالَ : " لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَهَا ، كَمَا ذَاقَ الْأَوَّلُ " .
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that a man divorced his wife three times and she married another husband who divorced her, before having intercourse with her. The Messenger of Allah was asked:` "Is she permissible for the first (husband to remarry her)?" He said: "No, not until he tastes her sweetness as the first tasted her sweetness."
Hadith 3446
أَخْبَرَنَا
الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
الْأَوْزَاعِيُّ ، قَالَ : سَأَلْتُ
الزُّهْرِيَّ عَنِ الَّتِي اسْتَعَاذَتْ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عُرْوَةُ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ : " أَنَّ الْكِلَابِيَّةَ لَمَّا دَخَلَتْ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَتْ : أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنْكَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَقَدْ عُذْتِ بِعَظِيمٍ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ " .
´It was narrated from 'Aishah that when the Kilabi woman entered upon the Prophet she said:` "I seek refuge with Allah from you." The Messenger of Allah said: "You have sought refuge with One Who is Great. Go back to your family."
Hadith 3450
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، عَنْ
حَجَّاجٍ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ ، عَنْ
عَطَاءٍ ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ
عُبَيْدَ بْنَ عُمَيْرٍ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ
عَائِشَةَ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , " أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يَمْكُثُ عِنْدَ زَيْنَبَ وَيَشْرَبُ عِنْدَهَا عَسَلًا ، فَتَوَاصَيْتُ وَحَفْصَةُ أَيَّتُنَا ، مَا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلْتَقُلْ : إِنِّي أَجِدُ مِنْكَ رِيحَ مَغَافِيرَ ، فَدَخَلَ عَلَى إِحْدَيْهِمَا ، فَقَالَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ ، فَقَالَ : بَلْ شَرِبْتُ عَسَلًا عِنْدَ زَيْنَبَ ، وَقَالَ : لَنْ أَعُودَ لَهُ ، فَنَزَلَ : يَأَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ لِمَ تُحَرِّمُ مَا أَحَلَّ اللَّهُ لَكَ سورة التحريم آية 1 , إِنْ تَتُوبَا إِلَى اللَّهِ سورة التحريم آية 4, لِعَائِشَةَ وَحَفْصَةَ وَإِذْ أَسَرَّ النَّبِيُّ إِلَى بَعْضِ أَزْوَاجِهِ حَدِيثًا سورة التحريم آية 3 " ، لِقَوْلِهِ : بَلْ شَرِبْتُ عَسَلًا , كُلُّهُ فِي حَدِيثِ عَطَاءٍ .
´'Ubaid bin 'Umair narrated from 'Aishah, the wife of the Prophet:` "The Prophet used to stay with Zainab bint Jahsh and drink honey at her house. Hafsah and I agreed that if the Prophet came to either of us, she would say: 'I detect the smell of Maghafir (a nasty-smelling gum) on you; have you eaten Maghafir?' He came to one of them and she said that to him. He said: 'No, rather I drank honey at the house of Zainab bint Jahsh, but I will never do it again.' Then the following was revealed: 'O Prophet! Why do you forbid (for yourself) that which Allah has allowed to you.' 'If you two turn in repentance to Allah, (it will be better for you).' addressing 'Aishah and Hafsah; 'And (remember) when the Prophet disclosed a matter in confidence to one of his wives.' refers to him saying: "No, rather I drank honey.""