حَدَّثَنَا
هَاشِمٌ هُوَ ابْنُ الْقَاسِمِ ، حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
شَهْرُ بْنُ حَوْشَبٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَتْنِي
أَسْمَاءُ بِنْتُ يَزِيدَ ، أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ جَمَعَ نِسَاءَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ لِلْبَيْعَةِ ، فَقَالَتْ لَهُ أَسْمَاءُ : أَلَا تَحْسُرُ لَنَا عَنْ يَدِكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ :
" إِنِّي لَسْتُ أُصَافِحُ النِّسَاءَ ، وَلَكِنْ آخُذُ عَلَيْهِنَّ " ، وَفِي النِّسَاءِ خَالَةٌ لَهَا , عَلَيْهَا قُلْبَانِ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ وَخَوَاتِيمُ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ ، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " يَا هَذِهِ ، هَلْ يَسُرُّكِ أَنْ يُحَلِّيَكِ اللَّهُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مِنْ جَمْرِ جَهَنَّمَ سِوَارَيْنِ وَخَوَاتِيمَ ؟ " ، فَقَالَتْ : أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ ، قَالَتْ : قُلْتُ : يَا خَالَتِي ، اطْرَحِي مَا عَلَيْكِ ، فَطَرَحَتْهُ ، فَحَدَّثَتْنِي أَسْمَاءُ : وَاللَّهِ يَا بُنَيَّ لَقَدْ طَرَحَتْهُ ، فَمَا أَدْرِي مَنْ لَقَطَهُ مِنْ مَكَانِهِ ؟ ، وَلَا الْتَفَتَ مِنَّا أَحَدٌ إِلَيْهِ ، قَالَتْ أَسْمَاءُ : فَقُلْتُ : يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ إِحْدَاهُنَّ تَصْلَفُ عِنْدَ زَوْجِهَا إِذَا لَمْ تُمَلَّحْ لَهُ ، أَوْ تَحَلَّى لَهُ ، قَالَ نَبِيُّ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " مَا عَلَى إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَتَّخِذَ قُرْطَيْنِ مِنْ فِضَّةٍ ، وَتَتَّخِذَ لَهَا جُمَانَتَيْنِ مِنْ فِضَّةٍ ، فَتُدْرِجَهُ بَيْنَ أَنَامِلِهَا بِشَيْءٍ مِنْ زَعْفَرَانٍ ، فَإِذَا هُوَ كَالذَّهَبِ يَبْرُقُ " .
It is narrated from Hazrat Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) gathered the Muslim women for allegiance (bay‘ah). Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O Messenger of Allah! Why do you not extend your hand for us? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I do not shake hands with women, but I take the pledge verbally." Among those women was an aunt of Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) who was wearing gold bangles and gold rings. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O woman! Do you like that Allah, the Exalted, should make you wear bangles and rings of fire on the Day of Resurrection?" She said: O Messenger of Allah! I seek refuge with Allah from that. I said to my aunt: Aunt! Take them off and throw them away. So she took them off and threw them away. Hazrat Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) says: By Allah! When she took them off and threw them away, I do not remember anyone picking them up from their place, nor did any of us even glance at them. Then I said: O Messenger of Allah! If a woman does not adorn herself with jewelry, she becomes insignificant in the eyes of her husband? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "There is no harm for you in making earrings of silver and having pearls set in them, and filling their holes with a little saffron, which will make them shine like gold."