مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
تتمہ مُسْنَدِ الْكُوفِيِّينَContinuation of Musnad of the Kufans
حَدِيثُ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ الزُّهْرِيِّ وَمَرَوَانَ بْنِ الْحَكَمِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُمَاHadith of al-Miswar ibn Makhramah al-Zuhri and Marwan ibn al-Hakam (may Allah be pleased with them)
Hadith 18907
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدٍ مَوْلَى بَنِي هَاشِمٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ ، حَدَّثَتْنَا أُمُّ بَكْرٍ بِنْتُ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي رَافِعٍ ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ : أَنَّهُ بَعَثَ إِلَيْهِ حَسَنُ بْنُ حَسَنٍ يَخْطُبُ ابْنَتَهُ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ : قُلْ لَهُ : فَلْيَلْقَنِي فِي الْعَتَمَةِ ، قَالَ : فَلَقِيَهُ ، فَحَمِدَ الْمِسْوَرُ اللَّهَ ، وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ ، وَقَالَ : أَمَّا بَعْدُ ، وَاللَّهِ مَا مِنْ نَسَبٍ ولَا سَبَبٍ وَلَا صِهْرٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ سَبَبِكُمْ وَصِهْرِكُمْ ، وَلَكِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : " فَاطِمَةُ مُضْغَةٌ مِنِّي يَقْبِضُنِي مَا قَبَضَهَا ، وَيَبْسُطُنِي مَا بَسَطَهَا ، وَإِنَّ الأْنْسَابَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ تَنْقَطِعُ غَيْرَ نَسَبِي وَسَبَبِي وَصِهْرِي " وَعِنْدَكَ ابْنَتُهَا وَلَوْ زَوَّجْتُكَ لَقَبَضَهَا ذَلِكَ ، قَالَ : فَانْطَلَقَ عَاذِرًا لَهُ .
It is narrated from Hazrat Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) that once Hasan bin Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him) sent a marriage proposal to him for his daughter. He said to the messenger, "Tell Hasan to meet me at night (Isha)." When they met, Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) praised Allah and, after saying 'Amma Ba'd', said: "By Allah! There is no lineage and family more beloved to me than yours, but the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: 'Fatimah is a part of me; whatever distresses her distresses me, and whatever pleases her pleases me. And on the Day of Judgment, all lineages and relationships will end except my lineage and family.' You already have the daughter of Hazrat Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) in your marriage. If I marry my daughter to you, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) will be distressed." Hearing this, Hasan accepted his excuse and went back.
