Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah

It is narrated from Hazrat Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) that he says: Whoever scrutinizes becomes deprived, and whoever does not show patience in distressing matters becomes helpless. The narrator says that Hazrat Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) said: If you lend to people, people will also lend to you, and if you forsake them, they will not forsake you. The narrator said: Then what do you command me? Hazrat Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Take a loan from your honor for the days of your poverty.