مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب الأدبBook of Etiquette
في الرجل يؤمر أن يجالس ويداخلRegarding being instructed to join or participate in a gathering
Hadith 27245
٢٧٢٤٥ - حدثنا ابن علية عن أيوب عن أبي قلابة قال: قال أبو الدرداء: أن من فقه (الرجل) (١) ممشاه ومدخله (٢).
Hazrat Abu Qalabah narrates that Hazrat Abu Darda said: Surely, a man's walk and his gatherings are related to his understanding. Abu Qalabah, in an admonishing manner, said: May Allah destroy the poet who said: Do not ask anyone about a man, rather look at his companions… Every companion is guided by his companions…
