It is narrated from Sayyiduna al-Urs (bin Amirah) (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Seek the permission and counsel of women (regarding their marriage); the previously married woman (thayyib, a widow or divorcee) shall speak clearly for herself (stating it with her own tongue), and the silence of the maiden (a virgin girl) is her permission."
At-Tabarani (may Allah have mercy on him) recorded it and said that Sufyan added al-Urs (may Allah be pleased with him) to its chain, whereas al-Layth bin Sa'd narrated it from Ibn Abi Husayn and stopped the chain at Adi bin Adi, that is, he kept it mursal. I [Hafiz al-Haythami (may Allah have mercy on him)] say: All of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7471M