The Example of Good and Bad Friends

Author: Dr. Muhammad Zia-ur-Rahman Azmi (رحمه الله)
Chapter: The Recommendation to Accompany the Righteous and Avoid Evil Companions

The Importance of Choosing Good Company​

It is essential to spend time in the company of pious individuals and avoid associating with bad companions. The influence of one’s companions significantly impacts one’s character and actions.

Example from Hadith​

❀ Narration by Abu Musa (رضي الله عنه):
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
"The example of a good companion and a bad companion is like that of a musk seller and a blacksmith. The musk seller may either gift you some perfume, you may buy some from him, or at the very least, you will enjoy a pleasant fragrance from him. On the other hand, the blacksmith may either burn your clothes or at least you will experience an unpleasant smell from him."
[Agreed upon: Sahih Bukhari (5534), Sahih Muslim (2628)]

Advice on Friendship​

❀ Narration by Abu Hurairah (رضي الله عنه):
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
"A person is upon the religion of his close friend, so let each one of you carefully consider whom he takes as a friend."
[Hasan: Abu Dawood (4833), Tirmidhi (2378), Ahmad (8028), Al-Hakim (171/4)]

Key Lessons​

1. Good Companions:
   
   • They positively influence your character and actions.
   • Their association brings benefits, be it through direct help, valuable advice, or the inspiration to adopt good habits.
2. Bad Companions:
   
   • They can lead to harm, either directly through their actions or indirectly through their negative influence.
   • Their association brings distress and potential damage to one’s morals and spirituality.
3. Self-Reflection:
   
   • Regularly evaluate your social circle and ensure it aligns with Islamic principles.
   • Surround yourself with individuals who encourage righteousness and discourage wrongdoing.

By adhering to these teachings, one can ensure a more fulfilling and spiritually beneficial life.