Author: Dr. Muhammad Zia-ur-Rahman Azmi (رحمه الله)
Chapter: Patting a Child’s Head Out of Compassion
He said:
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) named me Yusuf, seated me in his lap, and patted my head."
[Sahih: Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad (367), Ahmad (16402, 23836, 23837)]
Chapter: Patting a Child’s Head Out of Compassion
The Virtue of Expressing Love and Compassion to Children
Islam emphasizes showing affection and care to children as part of good character and kindness. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) set an example of expressing love towards children through his actions, teaching us to nurture compassion within families.Example from Hadith
❀ Narration by Yusuf bin Abdullah bin Salam (رضي الله عنه):He said:
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) named me Yusuf, seated me in his lap, and patted my head."
[Sahih: Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad (367), Ahmad (16402, 23836, 23837)]
Key Lessons
- Prophetic Compassion:
- The Prophet (ﷺ) demonstrated tenderness by naming the child, holding him in his lap, and patting his head. This action reflects his love and concern for children.
- Encouragement for Kindness:
- Showing affection to children instills confidence, security, and love in their hearts, creating a bond of trust and care.
- Nurturing Relationships:
- Small acts like patting a child’s head not only convey kindness but also strengthen relationships and foster an environment of emotional well-being.
- Following the Prophetic Example:
- Muslims are encouraged to emulate the Prophet’s (ﷺ) behavior in their interactions with children, promoting a culture of love and kindness.