Authored by: Dr. Raza Abdullah Pasha (Hafizahullah)
Answer:
Yes, quarreling and whispering that lead to distress and discord are often inspired by Satan, as confirmed by the Quran and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ).Evidence from the Quran:
- Surah Al-Mujadilah:
"Private conversation is only from Satan, that he may grieve those who have believed, but he will not harm them at all except by permission of Allah. And upon Allah let the believers rely."
[Surah Al-Mujadilah: 10]- The verse explains that whispering and secretive discussions (known as najwa) are a tool of Satan to create sorrow and distress among believers.
- Such actions are intended to create doubts, misunderstandings, and anxiety, but they cannot harm anyone without Allah's will.
Prophetic Guidance on Whispering and Quarreling:
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) emphasized avoiding actions that lead to distress and conflict:- Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (رضي الله عنه) narrated:
"Two people should not whisper to each other in the presence of a third person, as this will cause him distress."
[Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim]- This Hadith highlights the importance of avoiding behaviors that might create discomfort or alienation in social interactions.
- Satan's Role in Discord:
Satan's primary goal is to sow discord among believers. He exploits situations of misunderstanding or quarrels to deepen divisions and weaken relationships.
Key Points:
- Whispering and Quarreling:
- Actions like secretive conversations and quarrels can lead to emotional harm and are often instigated by Satan to create friction among believers.
- Relying on Allah:
- Believers should place their trust in Allah, knowing that Satan’s efforts cannot harm them without Allah’s permission.
- Practical Advice from the Sunnah:
- Avoid behaviors that could hurt others emotionally, such as excluding someone in a conversation.
- Seek refuge in Allah from Satan’s whispers and maintain harmonious relationships.