Author: Fazeelat al-Sheikh Hafiz Abdul Sattar Hamad (Hafidhahullah)
"Whoever is deprived of gentleness is deprived of all goodness."
— [Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Birr wa al-Silah wa al-Adab: 6598]
This Hadith highlights that the root of all goodness lies in gentleness. A person who lacks gentleness is deprived of all forms of goodness. Kindness and a gentle temperament serve as the foundation for harmonious relationships and personal success.
❀ Misconception About Harshness:
Some individuals believe that harshness and strictness are the keys to achieving their goals. They assume that a rigid approach yields results that gentleness cannot. However, Islamic teachings emphasize that Allah grants more blessings and success through gentleness than He does through harshness.
"Indeed, Allah is gentle, and He loves gentleness. He gives (rewards) for gentleness what He does not give for harshness or anything else."
— [Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Birr wa al-Silah wa al-Adab: 6601]
This Hadith underscores that gentleness is a divine quality beloved by Allah. It is a source of immense blessings and favors that cannot be achieved through harshness or strictness.
Evaluate your temperament and interactions with others. Adopt a gentle and kind approach in all dealings.
✔ Kindness in Relationships:
Gentleness fosters stronger bonds and goodwill in relationships, be it with family, friends, or strangers.
✔ Desire Allah’s Mercy:
The Prophet ﷺ said that if you want Allah’s mercy and help in fulfilling your needs, you should be merciful and gentle toward others. As Allah mentioned regarding His Messenger ﷺ:
"By the mercy of Allah, you were gentle with them. If you had been harsh and hard-hearted, they would have dispersed from around you. So, pardon them and seek forgiveness for them."
— [Surah Aal-e-Imran: 159]
Hadith Reference
مَنْ يُحْرَمْ الرِّفْقَ يُحْرَمْ الْخَيْرَ"Whoever is deprived of gentleness is deprived of all goodness."
— [Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Birr wa al-Silah wa al-Adab: 6598]
Key Points
❀ The Source of Goodness:This Hadith highlights that the root of all goodness lies in gentleness. A person who lacks gentleness is deprived of all forms of goodness. Kindness and a gentle temperament serve as the foundation for harmonious relationships and personal success.
❀ Misconception About Harshness:
Some individuals believe that harshness and strictness are the keys to achieving their goals. They assume that a rigid approach yields results that gentleness cannot. However, Islamic teachings emphasize that Allah grants more blessings and success through gentleness than He does through harshness.
Allah's Favor for Gentleness
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:"Indeed, Allah is gentle, and He loves gentleness. He gives (rewards) for gentleness what He does not give for harshness or anything else."
— [Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Birr wa al-Silah wa al-Adab: 6601]
This Hadith underscores that gentleness is a divine quality beloved by Allah. It is a source of immense blessings and favors that cannot be achieved through harshness or strictness.
Practical Guidance for Gentleness
✔ Self-Reflection:Evaluate your temperament and interactions with others. Adopt a gentle and kind approach in all dealings.
✔ Kindness in Relationships:
Gentleness fosters stronger bonds and goodwill in relationships, be it with family, friends, or strangers.
✔ Desire Allah’s Mercy:
The Prophet ﷺ said that if you want Allah’s mercy and help in fulfilling your needs, you should be merciful and gentle toward others. As Allah mentioned regarding His Messenger ﷺ:
"By the mercy of Allah, you were gentle with them. If you had been harsh and hard-hearted, they would have dispersed from around you. So, pardon them and seek forgiveness for them."
— [Surah Aal-e-Imran: 159]