Excerpt from the book: Ahkām wa Masā'il Kitāb o Sunnat ki Roshni Mein by Shaykh Mubashshir Ahmad Rabbani
Under what circumstances is a husband permitted to divorce his wife in Islam?
Additionally, can a man divorce a woman who claims to be Muslim but persists in acts of shirk (polytheism)?
Islam teaches that a husband should exhaust all efforts to maintain the marriage before considering divorce.
Allah ﷻ says:
﴿وَٱلَّـٰتِى تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَٱهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِى ٱلْمَضَاجِعِ وَٱضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا﴾
﴿وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ شِقَاقَ بَيْنِهِمَا فَٱبْعَثُوا۟ حَكَمًۭا مِّنْ أَهْلِهِۦ وَحَكَمًۭا مِّنْ أَهْلِهَآ ۚ إِن يُرِيدَآ إِصْلَـٰحًۭا يُوَفِّقِ ٱللَّهُ بَيْنَهُمَآ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا خَبِيرًۭا﴾
“As for those women from whom you fear arrogance (nushūz), then advise them, forsake them in bed, and [lastly] strike them. But if they obey you, then do not seek a way against them. Surely, Allah is Most High, Most Great.
And if you fear a split between the two, appoint an arbitrator from his family and one from hers. If they both desire reconciliation, Allah will bring about harmony between them. Indeed, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.”
Surah an-Nisāʾ: 34–35
This passage outlines a step-by-step process for resolving marital discord:
① Admonish her with advice
② Separate from her in the bed
③ Use light disciplinary measures
④ If conflict remains, involve arbitrators from both families
If all efforts fail, divorce becomes permissible.
Islam does not forbid divorce, but discourages it as a last resort.
The rulings of ṭalāq are detailed in Surah al-Baqarah, where Allah commands fairness, justice, and kindness during the process.
A Muslim man cannot marry a mushrikah woman (polytheist or idolater).
Allah ﷻ clearly states:
﴿وَلَا تَنكِحُوا ٱلْمُشْرِكَـٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّ﴾
“Do not marry polytheist women until they believe.”
Surah al-Baqarah: 221
Such a marriage is invalid and impermissible.
If a woman claims to follow a revealed scripture (i.e., the Torah or the Gospel), even if she commits acts of shirk, Islam permits marrying her, with conditions:
﴿وَٱلْمُحْصَنَـٰتُ مِنَ ٱلَّذِينَ أُوتُواْ ٱلْكِتَـٰبَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ...﴾
“…And [lawful for you are] the chaste women from those who were given the Scripture before you…”
Surah al-Māʾidah: 5
Conditions include:
✔ She must be chaste (muḥṣanah)
✔ She must not have secret illicit relationships
✔ There must be no fear of harm to one’s own faith
➤ A husband is permitted to divorce his wife if all reconciliation efforts fail, but he should strive to resolve the matter peacefully first.
➤ Marrying a mushrikah woman is not allowed unless she embraces true Islamic faith.
➤ A scripture-following woman (Jew or Christian) may be married if she is chaste, faithful, and there is no threat to the Muslim man’s beliefs.
❖ Question:
Under what circumstances is a husband permitted to divorce his wife in Islam?
Additionally, can a man divorce a woman who claims to be Muslim but persists in acts of shirk (polytheism)?
❖ Answer:
◈ Islam Encourages Reconciliation Before Divorce
Islam teaches that a husband should exhaust all efforts to maintain the marriage before considering divorce.
Allah ﷻ says:
﴿وَٱلَّـٰتِى تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَٱهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِى ٱلْمَضَاجِعِ وَٱضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا﴾
﴿وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ شِقَاقَ بَيْنِهِمَا فَٱبْعَثُوا۟ حَكَمًۭا مِّنْ أَهْلِهِۦ وَحَكَمًۭا مِّنْ أَهْلِهَآ ۚ إِن يُرِيدَآ إِصْلَـٰحًۭا يُوَفِّقِ ٱللَّهُ بَيْنَهُمَآ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا خَبِيرًۭا﴾
“As for those women from whom you fear arrogance (nushūz), then advise them, forsake them in bed, and [lastly] strike them. But if they obey you, then do not seek a way against them. Surely, Allah is Most High, Most Great.
And if you fear a split between the two, appoint an arbitrator from his family and one from hers. If they both desire reconciliation, Allah will bring about harmony between them. Indeed, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.”
Surah an-Nisāʾ: 34–35This passage outlines a step-by-step process for resolving marital discord:
① Admonish her with advice
② Separate from her in the bed
③ Use light disciplinary measures
④ If conflict remains, involve arbitrators from both families
If all efforts fail, divorce becomes permissible.
❖ Divorce Is Allowed, But Regulated
Islam does not forbid divorce, but discourages it as a last resort.
The rulings of ṭalāq are detailed in Surah al-Baqarah, where Allah commands fairness, justice, and kindness during the process.
❖ Marrying a Polytheist (Mushrikah) Woman
A Muslim man cannot marry a mushrikah woman (polytheist or idolater).
Allah ﷻ clearly states:
﴿وَلَا تَنكِحُوا ٱلْمُشْرِكَـٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّ﴾
“Do not marry polytheist women until they believe.”
Surah al-Baqarah: 221Such a marriage is invalid and impermissible.
❖ Exception: Marriage to a Kitābiyyah (Jewish or Christian Woman)
If a woman claims to follow a revealed scripture (i.e., the Torah or the Gospel), even if she commits acts of shirk, Islam permits marrying her, with conditions:
﴿وَٱلْمُحْصَنَـٰتُ مِنَ ٱلَّذِينَ أُوتُواْ ٱلْكِتَـٰبَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ...﴾
“…And [lawful for you are] the chaste women from those who were given the Scripture before you…”
Surah al-Māʾidah: 5Conditions include:
✔ She must be chaste (muḥṣanah)
✔ She must not have secret illicit relationships
✔ There must be no fear of harm to one’s own faith
Conclusion:
➤ A husband is permitted to divorce his wife if all reconciliation efforts fail, but he should strive to resolve the matter peacefully first.
➤ Marrying a mushrikah woman is not allowed unless she embraces true Islamic faith.
➤ A scripture-following woman (Jew or Christian) may be married if she is chaste, faithful, and there is no threat to the Muslim man’s beliefs.
