سُوْرَةُ البَقَرَةِ

Surah Al-Baqara (2) — Ayah 235

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وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ ٱلنِّسَآءِ أَوْ أَكْنَنتُمْ فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ ۚ عَلِمَ ٱللَّهُ أَنَّكُمْ سَتَذْكُرُونَهُنَّ وَلَـٰكِن لَّا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا إِلَّآ أَن تَقُولُوا۟ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوفًا ۚ وَلَا تَعْزِمُوا۟ عُقْدَةَ ٱلنِّكَاحِ حَتَّىٰ يَبْلُغَ ٱلْكِتَـٰبُ أَجَلَهُۥ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ فَٱحْذَرُوهُ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌ ﴿235﴾
And there is no sin on you if you make a hint of betrothal or conceal it in yourself, Allâh knows that you will remember them, but do not make a promise of contract with them in secret except that you speak an honourable saying according to the Islâmic law. And do not consummate the marriage until the term prescribed is fulfilled. And know that Allâh knows what is in your minds, so fear Him. And know that Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing.
وَلَا walā And (there is) no
جُنَاحَ junāḥa blame
عَلَيْكُمْ ʿalaykum upon you
فِيمَا fīmā in what
عَرَّضْتُم ʿarraḍtum you hint
بِهِۦ bihi [with it]
مِنْ min of
خِطْبَةِ khiṭ'bati marriage proposal
ٱلنِّسَآءِ l-nisāi [to] the women
أَوْ aw or
أَكْنَنتُمْ aknantum you conceal it
فِىٓ in
أَنفُسِكُمْ ۚ anfusikum yourselves
عَلِمَ ʿalima Knows
ٱللَّهُ l-lahu Allah
أَنَّكُمْ annakum that you
سَتَذْكُرُونَهُنَّ satadhkurūnahunna will mention them
وَلَـٰكِن walākin [and] but
لَّا (do) not
تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ tuwāʿidūhunna promise them (widows)
سِرًّا sirran secretly
إِلَّآ illā except
أَن an that
تَقُولُوا۟ taqūlū you say
قَوْلًۭا qawlan a saying
مَّعْرُوفًۭا ۚ maʿrūfan honorable
وَلَا walā And (do) not
تَعْزِمُوا۟ taʿzimū resolve (on)
عُقْدَةَ ʿuq'data the knot
ٱلنِّكَاحِ l-nikāḥi (of) marriage
حَتَّىٰ ḥattā until
يَبْلُغَ yablugha reaches
ٱلْكِتَـٰبُ l-kitābu the prescribed term
أَجَلَهُۥ ۚ ajalahu its end
وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ wa-iʿ'lamū And know
أَنَّ anna that
ٱللَّهَ l-laha Allah
يَعْلَمُ yaʿlamu knows
مَا what
فِىٓ (is) within
أَنفُسِكُمْ anfusikum yourselves
فَٱحْذَرُوهُ ۚ fa-iḥ'dharūhu so beware of Him
وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ wa-iʿ'lamū And know
أَنَّ anna that
ٱللَّهَ l-laha Allah
غَفُورٌ ghafūrun (is) Oft-Forgiving
حَلِيمٌۭ ḥalīmun Most Forbearing

Tafsir al-Quran al-Karim is a 4-volume Quran commentary by Hafiz Abdus Salam bin Muhammad Bhutvi, a renowned Salafi (Ahl al-Hadith) scholar and Sheikh ul-Hadith from Pakistan. Based on over 45 years of teaching and research, this tafsir follows the methodology of Tafsir bil-Ma'thur — interpreting the Quran through authentic Hadith, statements of the Companions, and the understanding of the early generations (Salaf). It is distinguished by its complete avoidance of Israeliyyat (Judeo-Christian narratives) and unverified reports. The tafsir is originally written in Urdu, translated to English by tohed.com.

(Ayah235) ➊ {فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ …:} That is, during the waiting period (‘iddah), it is not permissible to give a woman a marriage proposal in clear words, but there is no harm in saying something in an appropriate manner, that is, by allusion or indirect reference. Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) says: « فِيْمَا عَرَّضْتُمْ بِهٖ......» “By this is meant that a person says, ‘I have a plan to get married, and I wish that Allah grants me a righteous wife.’” [ بخاری، النکاح، باب قول اللہ عزوجل : « ولا جناح علیکم فیما … » : ۵۱۲۴ ] But this ruling is for the woman whose husband has died or who has been given three divorces, as when Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) was given three divorces, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: “When your waiting period is over, inform me.” When she informed him that her waiting period was over, he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Marry Usamah bin Zayd.” [ مسلم، الطلاق، باب المطلقۃ البائن لا نفقۃ لہا : ۱۴۸۰ ] However, for the woman who has been given a revocable divorce, it is not permissible for anyone to speak to her about marriage, even by allusion or indirect reference, during her waiting period, because her husband still has rights over her.
➋ That is, do not tie the knot of marriage until the waiting period is completed. There is consensus among all the imams that marriage during the waiting period is not valid. (Ibn Kathir, Shawkani)
{وَ اعْلَمُوْۤا اَنَّ اللّٰهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِيْۤ اَنْفُسِكُمْ:} In this, there is a warning against devising tricks to bypass the legal rulings regarding marriage, and encouragement to repent.