´Bahz bin Hakim narrated from his father, from his grandfather who said:` "When something was brought to him, the Messenger of Allah would ask: 'Is this charity or a gift?' If they said: 'Charity.' He would not eat it, and if they said, 'A gift' he would eat it."
Hadith Referenceسنن ترمذي / كتاب الزكاة عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم / 656
1؎: The difference between charity (sadaqah) and a gift (hadiyyah) is that with charity, the reward of the Hereafter is intended, and the giver is considered honorable while the recipient is regarded as lowly and in need. In contrast, with a gift, the purpose is to seek closeness to the one to whom it is given, and in the eyes of the giver, it indicates the honor and esteem of the recipient.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
1: The difference between charity (sadaqah) and a gift (hadiyyah) is that with charity, the reward of the Hereafter is intended, and the giver is considered honorable while the recipient is regarded as lowly and needy. In contrast, with a gift, the aim is to draw closer to the one to whom it is given, and in the eyes of the giver, it indicates the honor and dignity of the recipient.
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 656
´Bahz bin Hakim narrated from his father that his grandfather said:` "If something was brought to him, the prophet would ask whether it was a gift or charity. If it was said that if was charity, he would not eat, and if it was said that it was a gift, he would stretch forth his hand."
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
Urdu marginal note: You yourself are the principal example in abstaining from charity, so that there remains no room for objection regarding any impropriety. The family of the Prophet, being your descendants, are included in this ruling. It is possible that the purpose of the chapter is to show that even voluntary charities (nafl sadaqat) were not lawful for the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), whereas for the noble wives (azwaj mutahharat, radi Allahu anhunna), voluntary charities were lawful, as is established by many ahadith.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 2614