´Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud:` that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "No one should convey to me anything regarding anyone."
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Urdu Footnote:
Note:
(In the chain of narration, Zayd ibn Zaydah is a narrator whose hadith is weak.)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 3896
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
When a person hears something wrong about someone, whether close or distant, he cannot remain unaffected by it. Even if he does not express it through words or actions, its effect is certainly felt in the heart. Therefore, without a valid reason, one should not mention someone’s wrongdoing in front of others. However, if there is a legitimate Shar‘i (Islamic legal) need—for example, if the intention is to advise and reform that person through an intermediary, or to warn someone—then it is permissible. Or if the person is extremely sinful (fasiq), wicked (fajir), or oppressive (zalim).
In the Noble Qur’an, Allah the Exalted says: (لَا يُحِبُّ اللَّهُ الْجَهْرَ بِالسُّوءِ مِنَ الْقَوْلِ إِلَّا مَنْ ظُلِمَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ سَمِيعًا عَلِيمًا) “Allah does not like the public mention of evil except by one who has been wronged, and Allah is All-Hearing, All-Knowing.” () (An-Nisa: 148)
The scholars of ethics write that a person who comments on others and conveys their words in your presence is, in all likelihood, also speaking about you in front of others. Therefore, one should not encourage this habit in such a person.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 4860