حَدَّثَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ،
وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى، قَالَا : حَدَّثَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا
شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ
سِمَاكِ بْنِ حَرْبٍ، قَال : سَمِعْتُ
مُصْعَبَ بْنَ سَعْدٍ يُحَدِّثُ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ
سَعْدٍ، قَالَ : أُنْزِلَتْ فِيَّ أَرْبَعُ آيَاتٍ ، فَذَكَرَ قِصَّةً ، فَقَالَتْ أُمُّ سَعْدٍ : أَلَيْسَ قَدْ أَمَرَ اللَّهُ بِالْبِرِّ ؟ وَاللَّهِ لَا أَطْعَمُ طَعَامًا وَلَا أَشْرَبُ شَرَابًا حَتَّى أَمُوتَ أَوْ تَكْفُرَ ، قَالَ : فَكَانُوا إِذَا أَرَادُوا أَنْ يُطْعِمُوهَا شَجَرُوا فَاهَا ، فَنَزَلَتْ هَذِهِ الْآيَةُ : وَوَصَّيْنَا الإِنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حُسْنًا وَإِنْ جَاهَدَاكَ لِتُشْرِكَ بِي سورة العنكبوت آية 8 الْآيَةَ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى : هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ .
´Narrated Mus'ab bin Sa'd:` that his father, Sa'd, said: "Four Ayat were revealed about me" and he mentioned the story. Umm Sa'd had said: "Did not Allah command you to honor (your parents). By Allah! I will not eat or drink anything until I die or you renounce (Islam)." He said: "So when they wanted to make her eat, they would force her mouth open. So this Ayah was revealed: And We have enjoined on man to be dutiful to his parents; but if they strive to make you associate (partners) with Me, of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not (29:8)."
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation:
1:
That is, the polytheist and disbelieving mother of Sa'd radi Allahu anhu was inciting him towards disbelief and polytheism under the pretext of Allah's command to "show kindness to parents."
2:
We have enjoined upon man to show kindness (and good conduct) to his parents, but if they strive to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, then do not obey them (: al-Ankabut: 8).
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 3189