´'Amr bin Shu'aib narrated from his grandfather 'Abdullah bin 'Amr, that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:` "There are two traits, whoever has them in him, Allah writes him down as grateful and patient. And whoever does not have them, Allah does not write him down as grateful, nor patient. Whoever looks to one above him for his religion, and follows him in it, and whoever looks to one who is below him in worldly matters, and praises Allah for the blessings He has favored the one who is above him with, then Allah writes him down as grateful and patient. And whoever looks to one who is below him for his religion, and looks to one who is above him for worldly matters, and grieves over what missed him of it, Allah does not write him down as grateful nor as patient." (Another chain reaching to) 'Amr bin Shu'aib, from his father, from his grandfather from the Prophet (s.a.w) with similar narration.
Hadith Referenceسنن ترمذي / كتاب صفة القيامة والرقائق والورع عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم / 2512
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:ضعيف، الضعيفة (633 و 1924) // ضعيف الجامع الصغير (2832) // | زبیر علی زئی:(2512) إسناده ضعيف, المثني : ضعيف (تقدم:641)
Hadith Takhrij«تفرد بہ المؤلف ( تحفة الأشراف : 8778) (ضعیف) (سند میں مثنی بن صباح ضعیف راوی ہیں، ان کی تضعیف خود امام ترمذی نے کی ہے، اور عمرو بن شعیب بن محمد اور ان کے پردادا عبداللہ بن عمرو رضی الله عنہما کے درمیان انقطاع ہے، لیکن اگلی سند میں عن أبیہ کا ذکر ہے، نیز ملاحظہ ہو: الضعیفة 633، 1924)»
Brief Explanation
1؎ : That is, in matters of religion, one should always look towards someone better than oneself and the person who acts most upon the religion, so that a similar religious zeal may be developed within oneself. And with regard to worldly matters, one should always look towards someone lesser than oneself, so that whatever we have been granted by the Lord of all worlds (Rabb al-‘Alamin), we may become His grateful servants for it, and the quality of recognizing blessings may be cultivated within us.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation: 1: It is as if, in religious matters, one should always look towards someone better than oneself and the person who acts upon the religion the most, so that a similar religious zeal may be developed within oneself, and in worldly matters, one should always look towards someone lesser than oneself so that whatever has been provided to us by the Lord of all the worlds, we may become grateful servants for it, and the quality of recognizing blessings may be developed within us.
Note 1: (In the chain of narration, Mathna bin Sabah is a weak narrator, his weakness has been mentioned by Imam Tirmidhi himself, and there is a break (inqita‘) between ‘Amr bin Shu‘aib bin Muhammad and his great-grandfather ‘Abdullah bin ‘Amr radi Allahu anhuma, but in the next chain, the mention of “from his father” (‘an abihi) is present, also see: al-Da‘ifa: 633, 1924) Note 2: (In Tuhfat al-Ashraf, the statement of Tirmidhi “hasan gharib” is not present)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2512