Hadith 2512

أَخْبَرَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ حِزَامٍ الرَّجُلُ الصَّالِحُ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِسْحَاق، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ، أَخْبَرَنَا الْمُثَنَّى بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ نَحْوَهُ ، قَالَ : هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ ، وَلَمْ يَذْكُرْ سُوَيْدُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ فِي حَدِيثِهِ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ .
`With this chain also, a similar hadith is narrated from Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with them both). © Imam Tirmidhi says:
1- This hadith is Hasan Gharib,
2- Suwaid bin Nasr has not mentioned «عن أبيه» in his chain.`
حَدَّثَنَا سُوَيْدُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ، عَنِ الْمُثَنَّى بْنِ الصَّبَّاحِ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ : " خَصْلَتَانِ مَنْ كَانَتَا فِيهِ كَتَبَهُ اللَّهُ شَاكِرًا صَابِرًا ، وَمَنْ لَمْ تَكُونَا فِيهِ لَمْ يَكْتُبْهُ اللَّهُ شَاكِرًا وَلَا صَابِرًا ، مَنْ نَظَرَ فِي دِينِهِ إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ فَوْقَهُ فَاقْتَدَى بِهِ ، وَمَنْ نَظَرَ فِي دُنْيَاهُ إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ دُونَهُ فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ عَلَى مَا فَضَّلَهُ بِهِ عَلَيْهِ ، كَتَبَهُ اللَّهُ شَاكِرًا صَابِرًا ، وَمَنْ نَظَرَ فِي دِينِهِ إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ دُونَهُ وَنَظَرَ فِي دُنْيَاهُ إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ فَوْقَهُ فَأَسِفَ عَلَى مَا فَاتَهُ مِنْهُ لَمْ يَكْتُبْهُ اللَّهُ شَاكِرًا وَلَا صَابِرًا "
´'Amr bin Shu'aib narrated from his grandfather 'Abdullah bin 'Amr, that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:` "There are two traits, whoever has them in him, Allah writes him down as grateful and patient. And whoever does not have them, Allah does not write him down as grateful, nor patient. Whoever looks to one above him for his religion, and follows him in it, and whoever looks to one who is below him in worldly matters, and praises Allah for the blessings He has favored the one who is above him with, then Allah writes him down as grateful and patient. And whoever looks to one who is below him for his religion, and looks to one who is above him for worldly matters, and grieves over what missed him of it, Allah does not write him down as grateful nor as patient." (Another chain reaching to) 'Amr bin Shu'aib, from his father, from his grandfather from the Prophet (s.a.w) with similar narration.
Hadith Reference سنن ترمذي / كتاب صفة القيامة والرقائق والورع عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم / 2512
Hadith Grading الألبانی: ضعيف، الضعيفة (633 و 1924) // ضعيف الجامع الصغير (2832) //  |  زبیر علی زئی: (2512) إسناده ضعيف, المثني : ضعيف (تقدم:641)
Hadith Takhrij «تفرد بہ المؤلف ( تحفة الأشراف : 8778) (ضعیف) (سند میں مثنی بن صباح ضعیف راوی ہیں، ان کی تضعیف خود امام ترمذی نے کی ہے، اور عمرو بن شعیب بن محمد اور ان کے پردادا عبداللہ بن عمرو رضی الله عنہما کے درمیان انقطاع ہے، لیکن اگلی سند میں عن أبیہ کا ذکر ہے، نیز ملاحظہ ہو: الضعیفة 633، 1924)»
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation:
1:
It is as if, in religious matters, one should always look towards someone better than oneself and the person who acts upon the religion the most,
so that a similar religious zeal may be developed within oneself,
and in worldly matters, one should always look towards someone lesser than oneself so that whatever has been provided to us by the Lord of all the worlds, we may become grateful servants for it,
and the quality of recognizing blessings may be developed within us.

Note 1: (In the chain of narration, Mathna bin Sabah is a weak narrator,
his weakness has been mentioned by Imam Tirmidhi himself,
and there is a break (inqita‘) between ‘Amr bin Shu‘aib bin Muhammad and his great-grandfather ‘Abdullah bin ‘Amr radi Allahu anhuma,
but in the next chain, the mention of “from his father” (‘an abihi) is present,
also see:
al-Da‘ifa: 633, 1924)
Note 2: (In Tuhfat al-Ashraf, the statement of Tirmidhi “hasan gharib” is not present)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2512