حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو هِشَامٍ الرِّفَاعِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا
حَفْصُ بْنُ غِيَاثٍ، عَنْ
هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ : " مَا غِرْتُ عَلَى أَحَدٍ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَا غِرْتُ عَلَى خَدِيجَةَ وَمَا بِي أَنْ أَكُونَ أَدْرَكْتُهَا ، وَمَا ذَاكَ إِلَّا لِكَثْرَةِ ذِكْرِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَهَا ، وَإِنْ كَانَ لَيَذْبَحُ الشَّاةَ فَيَتَتَبَّعُ بِهَا صَدَائِقَ خَدِيجَةَ فَيُهْدِيهَا لَهُنَّ " ، قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى : هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ صَحِيحٌ .
´Aishah narrated:` "I was not jealous of any wife of the Prophet as I was jealous of Khadijah, and it was not because I saw her. It was only because the Messenger of Allah mentioned her so much, and because whenever he would slaughter a sheep, he would look for Khadijah's friends to gift them some of it."
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation:
1:
When his (the Prophet's sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) conduct with her (Khadijah's radi Allahu anha) friends was so excellent, then how would his conduct have been with Khadijah radi Allahu anha herself? Furthermore, this hadith also proves that one should continue to show good behavior towards the wife's friends, just as there is a command regarding the father that a person should treat his father's friends well.
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2017